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Can I ask her to change her wardrobe?
2006-08-26 21:30:46 · 41 answers · asked by Vitamin C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for the response. It seems a man has no power these days. Yes she really dress distastefully (atleast to me).
High heels, revealing clothes.... I hate high heels.
2006-08-26 21:40:21 · update #1
You can ASK her to change it, but do so at your own risk.
Married, engaged, dating, friends, you do not have any RIGHTS over a woman (or a man for that matter), you are still entitled to your opinion and can voice that, but always be respectful in doing so.
And always have a reason if you do, because if its something that they are willing to change, they will ask why you feel the way you do and take heed what you say. They may ask you even if they arent willing to, but you should still answer.
If your girlfriend is dressing like a tramp thats been ridden hard and put away wet, and you are worried about the image that she is portraying to other men, be able to tell her that it worries you and that men respecting her is important to you.
Be honest and truthful, but most of all RESPECT her.
2006-08-26 21:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bryant M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her entire wardrobe??? No. Not even if you were her husband. But you can tell her (nicely) if she's wearing something you think does not look good on her. A person's choice of clothes is sometimes a sign of their personality, so if you don't like the way she dresses maybe she's not for you. But sometimes people don't know how to dress. That's where you can help as a friend.
2006-08-26 21:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you change your wardrobe for her?? Ok, didn't think so!
She has the freedom to dress as she pleases. The only thing you have the right to do is to SUGGEST she would look better in something else. Even if she is your wife , you can't do anything except to suggest it. If you hate it that much , just find someone else who dressed how you like from the start.
2006-08-26 21:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably likes dressing sexy and looking like a hottie. you should enjoy it It makes me walk taller when I'm with my girl and she dresses that way. I'm 5'6" she is 5'7" and I just love it when she puts on the FM spikes. All the guys are checkin her out and looking at me asking in their head whats a hottie like that doing with me? Now to answer your question. You dont have any right to tell her what to wear but you can tell her how to wear it and bring it to the extreme Example, I really like you in that tight pink sweater, make sure you flash those melons around cause I get more complinments about you from the guys when you let them out like that. You make me so proud when you dress so slutty. At the party, or at the mall wherever tell her the guys are all drooling over her and one of the guys thought she was here to give lap dances. Try that approach and I bet she tones it down in a few weeks.
If that doesnt work I hear there are some pretty amish girls in pennsyvania or you might want to check out nice mormons in Utah
2006-08-27 01:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by jktravl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on
What century do you live in. Rights to a woman, period, are long gone, my friend.
You have the right to remain silent, if you give up this right, you Had better get the heck out of her way if she is SMART.
Asking her and having rights over her are two different things. Ask in a polite way and she might change it for you. If not, and you really like her, deal with it.
She might be the best girl friend you ever have...
2006-08-26 21:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where the hell you're from, but if any man told me to change my wardrobe, he'd be watching those clothes he didn't like walk away, with me in them. You're certainly free to express your concerns about the way she dresses, that is, if they are valid concerns, and not some macho pig controlling issue that you may have.-----Good Luck!
2006-08-26 21:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're talking about a human being. I think you would be better off owning a dog, you can teach the animal all kinds of things, sit, stand, eat, play dead.....the list is endless and I am sure you will find that very satisfying.
2006-08-26 21:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically speaking we do not have any right over anybody. not even parents have the right over their children. we only have rights over things which we own. we do not own human beings.
the best thing that you could do is to tell your girlfriend what you feel about the manner she dresses up. you have to discuss it with her but then you leave her free to decide whether she will change it or not.
take note: you could not change a person who doesn't want to change. change should come from within.
2006-08-26 21:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by smiling face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no rights on your girlfriend. She also don't have right on you as well. You can't control a person's life you do don't somebody else to control yours. Machines can be control coz they don't have feeling & emotions but humans have feeling & emotions. You can always tell her what you think of her wardobe but don't over do it. If you really love the girl, what she wear doesn't matter right?
2006-08-26 21:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on hoe long you have been dating if only a few weeks then no if months like 3 or 4 then yeah go for it but most likely shes going to tell u to fix something too, before u tell her give her little hints that u dont like what she wears then go in for the kill and ask her to change
2006-08-26 21:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by kmarkelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋