Family & Relationships - 25 August 2006

My Girl and I had a discussion about wearing a ring her ex gave her when they were together.bothered me because he treated her like crap,so I cant understand why ayone would want to keep anything after going though that, SHe said it means nothing to her but she just likes the way it looks.So I asked her "what if the earing that you like to see me wear was given to me by my ex".Sure enough she said she would be angry. (my ex didnt give me the earings)

Now other gifts have come up and she says the same thing, that they mean nothing to her. she says" You want me to get rid of them because it bothers you but why shouldnt I be able to keep it if it means nothing to me?". Why? Because its hurting me and makes me question her feelings.Those Material Objects have no emotional meaning to her but they do to me and in a bad way.It should not hurt her to get rid of them. Thats why I wouldnt keep or at least not let her see an ex's gift. Because I've moved on.

Am I being unreasonable?

2006-08-25 14:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a co-worker who is currently dating another girl. We get along really well and often talk about having sex with each other. He and his girlfriend are always on the rocks and that's when he wants to do it most. Should I or shouldn't I? Please help!! I'm 19 (virgin) and he's 24.

2006-08-25 14:35:58 · 60 answers · asked by Hilda 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with my boyfriend about 2 years and 8 months. our relationship has been great but everytime we make a date it falls through. if we set it up at 6 he will call me like at 8 saying he is running late, all the time. sometimes he even leaves me ready with nowhere to go. like i said we have great communication and i know he loves me but i dont feel like i matter enough to be his top priority due to the fact that other guys do come through at the time they say they will. what is wrong with him? what can i do?

2006-08-25 14:34:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-25 14:34:11 · 10 answers · asked by xXxShortyYxXx 1 in Family

my neighbor went and shared my personal life with people we both know on the internet and I was wondering if i have a right to be mad and tell him that i want all my things back (extra house key's car key and some of my other things that is over there I told him that I no longer want to talk because he can no longer can be trusted am I over reacting?????

2006-08-25 14:33:35 · 15 answers · asked by wicked_korn066 1 in Friends

I came from a large family, i'm the oldest. i'm 28! my parents died a few weeks ago. Now my younger brothers and sisters have to stay with this very mean man. The last i heard he was abusing my siblings. the man apperently won't let the kids use the phone to call for help. I would call for help for them. But i don't know where they live now. I lost all contact with them. I know all of their e-mails and their allowed on the computer. But somehow I lost contact with them and now I can't e-mail them for some strange reason. I'm just asking for someone to help me out. the last i heard was my youngest brother is very ill cause of his asthma and he lost his inhaler. That's the last I heard of them. And I wanna know that everything is fine with them now. so i'm asking for someone who is kind enough to help me out. cause I don't know what to do anymore. Could you please help me through this. And I have to tell you that this is no lie so don't think it is. and thanks in advance!

2006-08-25 14:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been going out with my boyfriend about 2 years and 8 months. our relationship has been great but everytime we make a date it falls through. if we set it up at 6 he will call me like at 8 saying he is running late, all the time. sometimes he even leaves me ready with nowhere to go. like i said we have great communication and i know he loves me but i dont feel like i matter enough to be his top priority due to the fact that other guys do come through at the time they say they will. what is wrong with him? what can i do?

2006-08-25 14:32:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hsband of 9 years confided in me with out being asked to having slept with my closest b/f 3 times over a 3 year period,she confirmed this. She was having marital problems (serperated and living with us because she had had an affair with a co-worker!) My husband and I agreed we would try to work things out. Well, I called one of my other b/f's the next day, also married. I wanted to ask her if she had and got a "No Way!". That night when I got home there was a message on my machine. I knew in my gut who it was and why. Sure enough, she had slept with him once. I was passes out and they were "totally drunk". Basically, I have lost trust for 3 of the most important people in my life. I am crushed. I have no one to talk to, they have all betrayed me. BTW, the first one actually stole my first boyfriend that way. So this is twice for her. I have let both of them live w/ me when they were broke, rent free. The last affair was 3 years ago. Are any of them worth keeping? I love all 3...

2006-08-25 14:32:25 · 29 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have my husband whom i love so much he treats me good and loves me right but there just this one problem thats interfering with our lives. He doesnt think it seems to be an issue but i strongly feel that it is. When i have my friends come over he wants to know what we talked about, also when hes working and one of my friends come over he gets upset and thinks wierd things. I also have to ask permission to go somewhere with my friends, like shopping or taking the kids out. I even want to go visit my friends and he thinks were up to something. I really dont understand why he is this way, is he jealous of everything i do or does he think i do wrong things because he probably does. dont seem to get it is he controlling my life or is this just normal i dont know what to expect or how to react maybe someone can give me a little advice......

2006-08-25 14:31:46 · 25 answers · asked by tori 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married next week. When I booked the flight for the honeymoon, I used my finacee's new name even though her license hasn't been changed. Will a copy of the marriage certificate be enough to get her on the plane? (It won't be notarized)

2006-08-25 14:31:14 · 6 answers · asked by sbu89 1 in Weddings

I recently had a date with a guy I met on Match.com. He is 32 years old, but doesn't look a day over 20.
Anyway, he picked me up so I didn't have to take the bus, and we ate at an Italian restaurant. During that time, he wanted to know all about me--I hardly had a chance to ask him a question!
When I talked to him, his eyes were always on mine, and he laced his fingers together and put them under his chin while I talked. I found myself doing the same thing.
When we left, he walked a step ahead of me and opened my side of the car door to let me in.
When he dropped me off at my house, I reached out my hand to shake his. When he grabbed mine, he looked me right in the eye, and had a soft touch to his shake.
Do you think he interested at all?
Thanks for your help.

2006-08-25 14:28:41 · 11 answers · asked by NMSherwin 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 14:27:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to see my cousin but it never works out and he's leavin soon for airforce training should i like tell him he has to visit or should i say don't visit i really wana see him b4 he leaves 4 4 yrs please help

2006-08-25 14:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by pretty girl!! 3 in Family

2006-08-25 14:26:46 · 16 answers · asked by amn305 2 in Singles & Dating

any good list would b good cuz i no theres more/

2006-08-25 14:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by stef 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 14:25:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering.

2006-08-25 14:25:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl over the net and we started exchanging emails & photos for about 2 and a half months. I eventually asked her out on a date and I thought it went well. We exchanged phone numbers at the end and she said that If I needed anything all I needed to do is just call her. Sweet. 3 days after our date I sent her a text just to say hello and she replied asking how I was as well. The day after I sent another message to see if she was free to go out but no reply. So I rang the number and it was disconnected. So I rang her at work and she said that she is busy and asked me to send her an email. So I did and she replied back but judging on her reply all of a sudden she doesnt seem so keen?? What do I do. I am feeling paranoid about why she disconnected her mobile number. I hope it is not because of me.... I dont want to call her again at work because I dont want to look to invasive. Should I send her another email? what do I put in it? any help is appreciated.

2006-08-25 14:25:05 · 6 answers · asked by FranDaMan 1 in Singles & Dating

So we have already gone really far, and we talked about doing it yesterday. We are really close with each other and love each other very much. The only thing is we are both still kinda young like in our teens but we've totally agreed that we wouldn't do it until we are both completely ready.

2006-08-25 14:24:43 · 7 answers · asked by :) clw<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Our marriage was bad. But I still love him. I found out some things that he did but he swears up and down he didnt cheat on me. I havent called him in 3 days. I figured I would let him call me but he didn't. It's just really hard because it feels like he just doesnt care about me anymore and he just walked away.

This is absolutely killing me. We have 2 small children and this was his weekend to get them so I was waiting to see if he would call me but he didnt. It just makes me so mad that he doesnt even care about them. He tells me he does but his actions prove otherwise. Should I call him and ask him why he didnt call about his kids.

I just have such a mixture of emotions I feel like I am going crazy. Im sad, Im mad, Im overwhelmed. I dont know what to do but I cant keep feeling this way. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with.

2006-08-25 14:24:28 · 21 answers · asked by muchfunrwe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to "match.com" and I looked at everyone's personal. Most black men said that they were open to dating all ethnicities, Asian, Black, White and etc. Most Black Women personal's said that they were open to all ethnicities when it comes to dating. But, All the white guys said they were open to Asian, Hispanic, White, and etc, but black women were not included. If you don't find black women interesting enough to date or for marriage, I would like to know, and what is your reason you think she would not make a suitable companion for a white man?

2006-08-25 14:24:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like if i just met a girl on da street and i said hey baby lets go back to my place and get it on and just like dat wez goin at it.....you diggin my game?

2006-08-25 14:24:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 14:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by amn305 2 in Family

I don't want to hurt this guy , but I'm just not in the right place in alot of ways right now.

2006-08-25 14:23:39 · 31 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

sleep with my friends, won't cheat, won't sneak out or inside to mess around, won't lie, that do care, that won't use, that do appreciate, show love that is more than words, that will call, no excuses, isn't too bussy, that her friends are really just friends, her eyes won't wander, won't bash me, will support, will be responsible, won't jump to conclusions, won't be unfaithful, won't be disrespectfull, won't act out, will have the sense to know and respond, won't tease or flirt, will commit, know what she want, can see me, really see me, won't be revengefull, will talk to me about her genuine feelings, will be content, won't waist time?

2006-08-25 14:23:10 · 17 answers · asked by mimi54 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 14:22:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He found me on a site similar to myspace. He initiates all contact and wants to either call or chat practically 24 hours per day. We have a great connection. He is american but his parents are pakistani. He said he was once hurt in a relationship and has his emotions locked away. He told me his parents have a few people in mind for him to marry but he is not sure. He wants me to call his cell phone blocked and he is at his nosey sisters house so he is always sneaking around. His parents pay for his phone bill. He wants to meet me and says he looks forward to talking to me everyday and that I make him happier than hes been in a long time. He cant fall asleep without talking to me or seeing me on camera. Im a being played here? Is this just a waste of time? Why the blocked number? The sister I could understand because she read one of our racey conversations...she called me and said he has a girlfriend. He said no that he was dating one of her friends but they broke up.

2006-08-25 14:21:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 14:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by cristani777 1 in Weddings

rich? is aeropastele a "rich kid" brand? just wondering :)

2006-08-25 14:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

looking for other christian parents around the world!

2006-08-25 14:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family