my neighbor went and shared my personal life with people we both know on the internet and I was wondering if i have a right to be mad and tell him that i want all my things back (extra house key's car key and some of my other things that is over there I told him that I no longer want to talk because he can no longer can be trusted am I over reacting?????
2006-08-25 14:33:35 · 15 answers · asked by wicked_korn066 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the proof i got this morning when i signed on and i got my (_*_) jumped by a friend of a friend that me and my neighbor know he told her she told every one else and it got back to me
2006-08-25 14:51:18 · update #1
of course you have the right.
just start yelling and yanking all your things away from his grubby hands. xD muahahaha.
but seriously...tell him to give you back the keys. that he blew it...so he's now jipped C=
2006-08-25 14:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extra car and house keys? You must've really had a close tie with this neighbor. Frankly, I wouldn't share such items with ANYONE, regardless of my trust in them. You can ask for these and "other" items back, but don't look for such to happen, seeing's you have made your understandable anger clear.
Just for safety's sake, I'd get ALL the house locks changed--and if you're willing to forgo the expense, have the car ignition/door keys changed out too. The latter proves to be an expensive lesson NEVER fully trust anyone.
2006-08-25 14:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no way. If someone is going to blab personal information about you, especially to someone you know, then you CANNOT trust that person. But before you take your things back, I would talk to him. Tell him how you feel, that you were betrayed by someone you thought you could trust. Then let him know that you would like your things back. Tell him that until you feel he can be trusted again, your things will remain at your house. But make sure you aren't too mean because he could blab more info. about you since he's mad.
2006-08-25 14:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how personal. If it is your deepest secrets I would be doing exactly what you are doing and let him know that he crossed the line. He needs to know that if he intends on having people trust him, he cannot share things like that. So, as of that I don't think so.
2006-08-25 14:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by missyb5884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be pissed off but i would first ask why did you do a thing like that and see what his answer is then go from there i don't no how long you guys have been friends so i cant answer if you are over reacting but no one has any business talking about your life but yourself so think about that.
2006-08-25 14:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by satingold2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.He told people and so he blew you off about your personal life.So you can go over there and be ;like i want all the keys back and whatever cuz where over.
2006-08-25 14:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would get my stuff back but keep talking to him but not in the way u used to like telling him everything. Just say hi and bye. and let him know that ur dissappointed in him hope i helped
2006-08-25 14:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do have the right to be mad. they told your secret and they shouldn't have. you have every right to be mad and take away your key etc becuase they broke your trust.
2006-08-25 14:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not over reacting ..They had no business doing that..They just blew all the trust you had in them..Definaltley get your things back
2006-08-25 14:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn.
Yes, it's part of life
My neighbors don't even know my name
2006-08-25 14:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋