So we have already gone really far, and we talked about doing it yesterday. We are really close with each other and love each other very much. The only thing is we are both still kinda young like in our teens but we've totally agreed that we wouldn't do it until we are both completely ready.
2006-08-25 14:24:43 · 7 answers · asked by :) clw<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just get it over with if you are an adult
2006-08-25 14:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I'm going to be honest here. I'm not sure just how old you are, but lets just say that you are mature enough to know exactly what you are getting into - after all, there are some 15 year olds out there that are more mature then some 25 year olds. It's wise that both of you want to wait untill you are ready...you can be deeply in love with someone, and still not be secure in yourself. Are you both virgins? I'm assuming yes...in which case, you want to make sure this is the person that you want to remember your first time with for the rest of your life. I, personally, only believe in making love if you are married, or engaged...I started dating my soon-to-be-husband when we were 13, but we didn't make love for the first time untill we were almost 17 (we had done everything else, however). For us, it was the ultimate commimentment and everlasting bond to each other. We didn't take it lightly, and we consider that the day that we were married. Sex isn't just about having orgasms and pleasing each other - though thats what allot of people assume it is. It's about trusting the other person with your body and heart...and without even realizing, your soul. I know I make it sound kinda serious, but it is - you shouldn't make this choice lightly. I say that if you both love each other deeply, are truly commmited, and have enough respect to keep your sexual part of your relationship privite (ie, not gossiping about it with friends), then you might be ready. Take a look at this man though. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? I know you are young...but if you are going to start thinking about sex, then you need to start thinking about marriage. They are both running along the same line.
If you both feel ready, then don't forget to use birth control. Please. I don't want to see you leaving a question in the next couple weeks 'Could I be pregnet?'. Teens are not, we are old enough to have some responsiblity. Don't make your expectations to high...your first time might be painful for you, and it'll be over really quickly. The sensations guys feel overwhelm them the first time, and it'll last a couple seconds. I know that doesn't sound romantic at all...but it'll last longer as you do it more often. And do it someplace special. I'm not big on advocating doing it while your parents are gone in your bedroom (you will be nervous the entire time about them coming hom), so maybe find a place outside, off the side of an old road at night. Whatever you do, don't park in an abandoned parking lot...cops look for those types of places. No matter where you do it at though, make sure you can be honest with each other. Tell each other what feels good and what doesnt. If you don't feel that comfortable yet, its best to wait. And make sure that this is love. Real love - not a fling, because it will break your heart if you both discover you dont love each other after you make love together for your first times. Best wishes!
2006-08-25 21:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you two feel towards each other. If you two truly love each other, then what you will share will not simply be sex, but love. If you two do decide to go all the way, then it should not be planned and set...it should be full of emotions and feelings. Just make sure that both of you are ready.
2006-08-25 21:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by cursedlover89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could let him f u c k you in the a s s
and you could get a dildo or cucubmer or something and f u c k him in the a s s with it while you are jacking him off
that way, you still didn't really have sex but it's still fun
2006-08-27 14:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait...... the time will come. Both parties have to be completely ready.
2006-08-25 21:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT please trust me. You must wait or you will regret it. I am 30 and lost my viginity at 16 to the guy we are now married. I wish i would have waited
2006-08-25 21:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married...Seriously..
2006-08-25 21:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by NMSherwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋