I have a co-worker who is currently dating another girl. We get along really well and often talk about having sex with each other. He and his girlfriend are always on the rocks and that's when he wants to do it most. Should I or shouldn't I? Please help!! I'm 19 (virgin) and he's 24.
2006-08-25 14:35:58 · 60 answers · asked by Hilda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait till your married
2006-08-25 14:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I realize nowadays that virginity is overrated, but have some pride. Why would you want to give it away to some loser who can't break up with his girlfriend before he has sex with someone else. Even if you weren't a virgin, I'd tell you the same thing. Would you like to be in a relationship with a guy only to find out that he screwed around on you when you were fighting?
2006-08-25 14:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want your first time to be with a guy, a co-worker, who is taken but in a rocky relationship, probably wants you because you are a virgin and will never talk to you after a couple of go's, then go ahead. But I would recommend you wait for a guy that you know, even if he isn't your only, will be a wonderful and gracious first.
2006-08-25 14:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense... but it sounds like you are his "back-up" girl. When things start going wrong with his current girlfriend, he teases you by saying that he wants to have sex with you and starts to talk to you about the chemistry and stuff... Especially since you are a virgin, I suggest that you wait until you are in a realtionship or at least are with someone that you would love to share that emotional and physical realtionship with. If you have sex with your co-worker...things might change between the both of you.
2006-08-25 14:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by cursedlover89 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if you should have sex with him but I know you probably should have sex with me. Tha dude's got a girlfriend and he's talking to you about wanting to f*&K you? If he's doing that to his present girl friend how do you think after he taps that as s he's gonna treat you? I bet if you give it up, which you will because you sound as if you have little self-esteem, I bet one of you gets fired because something somewhere along the way will go wrong and you'll both end up hating each other. Why not just save yourself the trouble, drop the zero and get with a hero - Me.
2006-08-25 14:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are basically asking if you should jump into a big pile of sh*t. This is your virginity, at the least, you are talking about. What the hell is so special about this guy that you want to give him your body? And he's on the rocks with his gf?
Answer: NO
2006-08-25 14:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to its your body and i cant tell you not to. But why would you sleep with a guy who wants to have sex with you when he fights with his girlfriend. Of course he wants it more when they are in a fight because he knows he isnt going to get it from his girlfriend. Well lets say you did and the next day he makes up with his girlfriend where would that leave you. Are you his booty call when he fights with his girl? well just think about it and whatever you decide is best for you do it. Good Luck!!!! Your Body is your Temple dont ruin it for a booty call.
2006-08-25 14:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should save your virginity to someone who really deserve it. Don't give it to one that is probably going to have just a couple seconds of little taste and kick you away. You don't even know if he is doing the same thing with more than one and get you sick somehow. Don't do it, have some pride! A man is telling you.
2006-08-25 14:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You deserve to share your first time w/ someone that truly cares for you rather than someone that's just angry at someone else. Your first time only happens once. It should be something you look back on w/ a smile, not something you'll end up feeling ashamed of. Besides, how are you going to feel when he has sex w/ you and the turns around and sleeps w/ her. I'm guessing... not good.
2006-08-25 14:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by capi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look, he is a guy, you are a virgin. What on hell makes u thing he cares about you?? You know he is sleeping with several women! U see...when it comes to sex, guys have to lists: "girls I have screwed" and "virgin girls I have screwed". If you have such a low standards go ahead and be just one more number on his second list. Personally, I'd like to believe you are better than that crap. Give some value to yourself and find somebody worth it!! when your body gets hot...KEEP YOUR HEAD COLD!
2006-08-25 14:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by xx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if you have saved yourself for the right one, he is not it. Why have sex with him when you know it is not your heart he wants? He has a gf, even if they fight a lot. And you said he only wants you when he is mad at her.
Keep waiting. He is not good enough for you. Wait until you find someone who makes you feel as if you are the only woman worth looking at. Someone who will be honored that he was your first. Someone who will not use you then go back to his gf.
2006-08-25 14:40:17 · answer #11 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋