Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

"if we broke up it would not matter to him cause i bring nothing to table" his words and i bi%ch all the time. Now here's the question Would you go the wedding and reherasal dinner after all this?? I keep going back and forth need other input

2006-08-24 04:26:06 · 39 answers · asked by ycd71 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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I want to have 4 kids with my future husband. Is that a good amount or am I wanting too many?

I am younger than my fiance but I want 4 kids and he said he will be happy with however many I want. Please advise.

2006-08-24 04:26:02 · 28 answers · asked by bubbles26 4 in Family

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why men said they lover their wife still cheat?

2006-08-24 04:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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relationship advice?

ok i jus got back with me ex, we decided today to give things another go, the reason why we split last time was because i got a little too attached and i think it scared her. Anyway i jus wanted some advice how to go about our renewed relationship as im frightened ill get too attached and scare her away again, jus really wanted some advice on tryin to stay with her but not go over the top.

2006-08-24 04:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Tom1983 1 in Singles & Dating

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so confused, please, any advice????

About 3 months ago I started talking to my highschool sweetheart again. We dated four years and we were in love but he was ready to get married and have children. He was 3 yrs older than me and I wasn't ready for that yet. I still wanted to be with him but wanted to wait on the marriage and children. Anyways, this caused a problem and we ended it. I didn't see or talk to him for almost 6yrs. until recently. He had been living with a girl and she had just left him for a doctor she went to work for and I had just come out of a relationship too. One thing lead to another and we started dating again and it was like all the feelings came back that we used to have. Well, she kept calling him one day and wanted to talk so they did and he took her back!! Just like that, he told me he loved me but he felt like he needed to give her another chance. Then 3days later she leaves him again for the doctor and now he wants me back! What should I do??

2006-08-24 04:25:35 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

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what would happen?

if you have sex on your period?

2006-08-24 04:24:54 · 15 answers · asked by lunallna1 2 in Singles & Dating

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Should I move on?

I have been married for 13 years and at first our marriage was really good, we got marrred at 15. As the years went by we never really talked anymore.I know that we loved each other but just didn't show it.I started telling my husband that I was going to leave if things didn't change his answer was always I don't give a crap leave if you want to I don't care. So after hearing this so many times I believed he meant it. I meet a builder I am a Realtor and became good friends with him and eventually had a affair with him I know the affair was wrong but I thought my husband didn't care after all that is what he told me so many times.My husband knows what happened as I told him we tried to make it work but I think neither of us thought the other meant it and now he has moved out and says he is tired of trying. This builder I know really loves me and has been there for me this whole time even as just a frind to talk to. I love my husband and I can't imagine my life w/o him. What should I do?

2006-08-24 04:23:27 · 21 answers · asked by Confused Beyond Belief 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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who really really hates their name........?

mines charlie!!!!

2006-08-24 04:23:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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Ladies Please Answer. Why do most of you women get so angry about men paying for sex when MONEY IS ALWAYS A?

FACTOR IN SEROUIS RELATIONSHIPS 1. Wedding Ring 2.Wedding 3 Stupid Dates 4. Gifts 5.mics. The list goes on and on. So for all of you ladies that say " WHY SHOULD A MAN PAY FOR SEX, BELIEVE ME HE IS ALREADY PAYING.

2006-08-24 04:22:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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I am with my baby's father and have een for 6 years but i am falling for my friend, what do i do???

I have been with one man for 6 years now...we got pregnant very early on and now have a beautiful and intelligent 5 year old. For years and years I was not really "allowed" to go out and have friends or wear what I wanted to wear. Very recently I met a friend (male) and he opened my eyes and made me realize I deserve more. I let my baby's father know how I felt and how disgusting he has made me feel over the years...now he is willing to change. He has been doing a great job treating me right and FINALLY taking time out to spend with our child and picking her up from the babysitters and whatnot...but now I am falling for my friend. Any suggestions? I am so freaking confused! I want to keep us together for the sake of my daughter but I am not in love with him anymore...

2006-08-24 04:21:33 · 16 answers · asked by Marcie P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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How to deal with two 8 year old twin brothers that fight every 10 minutes?

they fight like every 10 minutes and my mom says ignore them, they'll see that we dont care and stop but they never do so then its always me that ends up putting them apart - but then they double up against me and - im 11 but - to 8 year olds against 1 11 year old - there is no chance for me! So - how to deal?

2006-08-24 04:21:12 · 6 answers · asked by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 in Family

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how do i know if a man i married is my friend?

i believe he is not my friend

2006-08-24 04:21:06 · 6 answers · asked by DORIS A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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For all you gay guys do you feel attracted to women??

Even a little bit?? If there's super hot??

2006-08-24 04:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Sex with a stranger?

Would you try dogging if you knew no-one would ever find out

2006-08-24 04:20:04 · 42 answers · asked by sandpipper 4 in Singles & Dating

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What do you do when your bestfriend messes with your boyfriend?

Like what would you do? Would you dump your boyfriend and diss your friend? Would you dump your boyfriend and still be friends with you bestfriend? Or would you just pretend like nothing happened?

2006-08-24 04:20:02 · 10 answers · asked by Honesty 1 in Friends

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Birthday Party for 15 year old?

What are some good ideas for a 15 year old's birthday party? If it was all boys, I would take my boat out and go fishing, but the girls won't like that. So what are some good ideas? No, I don't want to hang out at my house. Something with water would be fun.

2006-08-24 04:19:45 · 4 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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Ladies HELP!!!! I need to convince my girlfriend!!?

I love my girlfriend n I think she's so beautiful and sexy. The problem is sometimes she gets me so hot that when we have sex I climax too soon. I feel so embarresed that I dont say anything and I tell her to hold on and give me a minute or that I have to use the bathroom. She thinks it's because I don't find her attractive and that I can't get it up. But the exact opposite is true!! I've told her my side and since I always use a condom, I've offered to show her the evidence (yes I know thats gross). But she will not listen to me and now she says she doesn't want to have sex anymore!! It's killin me because if she only knew how hot I thought she is. She is so pretty that it never occured to me that she would think it's possible that I believe she is undesirable. Please Help!!!!

2006-08-24 04:19:43 · 7 answers · asked by Tool7 3 in Singles & Dating

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Do girls enjoy to watch porn as much as guys?

And do you like to watch it alone or with your partner?

2006-08-24 04:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by trushka 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

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How shall I cheer him up when he is depressed and in another country??

He just realized how damn hard to survive in a distance relationship even with such intense feelings we have for each other... and now he closed himself in his room and I don't know what to do to make him feel better... :-(

2006-08-24 04:19:02 · 9 answers · asked by Esty 1 in Singles & Dating

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Are you still in a relationship even though you know it's over?

I saw this question on a website and wanted to know our stories tell me, vent, I would like to read and give away 10 points!

2006-08-24 04:17:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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I need to choose between two men..... help!!!!!!?

I was seeing this guy & then he left to back to his island.... but he's givin up his job & coming back to my island, in two weeks, but've started seeing one of my old school friends & i've fallin for him...... i have two weeks to choose & dont know what to do.... I'm trying to keep them as friends but its not as easy as it sounds.... HELP!!!!

2006-08-24 04:17:12 · 23 answers · asked by mis_zim 1 in Singles & Dating

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Any advice for a 1st timer on marrying someone who's been married before and has two children?

We've been together for 3 years, and are planning to marry in the Spring. His marriage to his ex was the result of a "suprise pregnancy" (she's recently admitted that she new what she was doing, and did it on purpose). He tried very hard for many years to make things work out, even having a second child, but it was inevitable.The relationship I have with his children is wonderful, I love them as my own. However, being a christian, I question whether we can create that perfect life that I've always wanted, by just doing things the right way, and correct order, when I approach the subject of children, he shys away claiming "Ive already done all that stuff", refering to the two children that we see once a month and on holidays. He's a wonderful father and I know he'll make a great husband, but I worry that our values and ambitions will conflict. So basically what I need is advice and like a "What to expect when you're marrying a man who's been married before and has 2 kids" book.

2006-08-24 04:17:05 · 12 answers · asked by J.A.G. 1 in Marriage & Divorce