FACTOR IN SEROUIS RELATIONSHIPS 1. Wedding Ring 2.Wedding 3 Stupid Dates 4. Gifts 5.mics. The list goes on and on. So for all of you ladies that say " WHY SHOULD A MAN PAY FOR SEX, BELIEVE ME HE IS ALREADY PAYING.
2006-08-24 04:22:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only paying for sex when you pay for dates if you have no feelings for the girl. If you truly love someone then it wouldnt matter that you're spending money on them, and if the girl truly loves you then you shouldnt have to spend a whole lot in order to be with her.
Maybe the reason you're putting so much cash down on your dates is bc you have to make up for your winning personality ;)
2006-08-24 04:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think money is an important factor in relationships. I was not at all fussed over the cost of my wedding ring, think it was about £25 and I love it.
Paying for sex, I think women don't agree with it in general is because women tend to associate sex with love. Not all women do, some women like to have meaningless sex, but I think they tend to be more vocal about what they want out of sex.
2006-08-24 11:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women associate sex that is not with someone they love or do casually as meaningless? It hink its fine, no its not the same as a wedding ring and gifts and such. I would rather you paid for it and got it that way then try and TAKE IT for free.
but for the women who asnwered as meaningless sex, if they are two consenting adults and want to enjoy each others company for three or four times, **** maybe even only once, what's the harm in that...?
2006-08-24 11:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tyana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice that a lot of women on here mention love, and feelings. Isn't the question about sex? You didn't ask about paying for feelings did you? Women are too emotional. Sex is sex, pay for it if you want, at least that way you get exactly what you ask for.
2006-08-24 11:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by jswllms 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres kinda a difference between paying through presents and rings etc etc and then paying a prostitute outright!!! As for giving your lady prezzies - you get just as many back im sure, so quit complaining and enjoy it! Ye men are NEVER happy!!!! And if you're that against paying for sex or buying present - become a born again virgin and stop whining!!!!!
2006-08-24 11:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I must agree with you on this one truth is some of us women go out on dates and expect guys to pay but to me thats pretty much selling yourself I like to go half and half so that they dont expect anything from me but a good time. Were in a new era and so lets meet half way ppl.
2006-08-24 11:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very TRUE!! One way or the other women make guys pay for it, whether it's a married couple and he has to do chores or whatever... women use that against men all the time... and funny thing is... yall suckers fall for it..lolz
2006-08-24 11:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a big difference between wooing a future partner and paying for sex...
my husband works and i am a stay at home mom but i don't consider him to be paying for sex...anymore than my earning sex from him by doing certain nasty chores or whatever.. sex is something we give each other... not buy
2006-08-24 11:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with a man paying a prostitute for sex.
But, where do you get off being a freaking cheap ***? You may have a problem with getting qualtiy women who don't know how to reciprocate, but seeing your attitude, I can understand why it would be difficult to go out with you. Are you the kind of guy that EXPECTS to have sex because you pay for dinner and a movie?
Stick with the prostitutes... WOMEN EVERYWHERE WOULD BE BETTER OFF.
2006-08-24 11:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you cant get a g/f then who cares if you pay for sex maybe it's your only way out
2006-08-24 11:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋