how do i know if a man i married is my friend?

Question

i believe he is not my friend

Answer 1

Well alittle bit more info would help. But this how you become friends. You learn to talk with each other, make sure that everyday you communicate with each other. Like now! you feel like he is not your friend, well than go talk to him about it. If he was your best friend, than you would talk to him about everything, well you have to work on it, also, dates are important, sharing dreams are important, making love is important, be romantic to each other is important. taking weekend get away trips are important
all these things build a relationship, but its start by talking to each other and getting to know each other

Answer 2

You can know if someone is your friend if you feel free to tell almost anything that comes over your head and you know you will be confortable and accepted. If there are things you do not tell your husband and there are other things that you wish your husband would explain, then you should work a little bit more on your friendship. If you think there is space to improve your friendship try to know more about him, about what he likes and let yourself be known as well.
Friendship and marriage is something you have to work on everyday and be constant

Answer 3

Agreed....a friend is someone you can talk to and share things with, who you like spending time with. A best friend is someone you can tell anything thing, even your deepest, darkest secrets.

Answer 4

Just ask him straight up but put a spin on it so he doesn't lie like this for example.....................Hey, we're friends right but if I wasn't what would you do with me.......? He can take it either way but which ever way it goes at lease you'll know!

Answer 5

YOU SHOULD HAVE CULTIVATED A FRIENDSHIP BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED. BUT SINCE YOU DIDN'T TRY TREATING HIM LIKE A FRIEND, BUT REMEMBER THAT HE IS STILL YOUR HUSBAND

Answer 6

you should have thought about that before you got married.