ok i jus got back with me ex, we decided today to give things another go, the reason why we split last time was because i got a little too attached and i think it scared her. Anyway i jus wanted some advice how to go about our renewed relationship as im frightened ill get too attached and scare her away again, jus really wanted some advice on tryin to stay with her but not go over the top.
2006-08-24 04:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Tom1983 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her space, alot of it. but be sweet and caring at the same time. dont talk about marriage and kids straight away!
2006-08-24 04:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by azaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, think about the reason why yu broke, because you got too attach to her, maybe you love her and you want to spend more time with her. The fact is, she is not settled in the relationship, she's with you but still on the look out for something else, I ain't gonna tell you to give her sapce, space for what, space for you to get in her pants. If she don't want to be with you, then you don't need to be with her. We all come in diffrent packages, when you're in a relationship you must be able to taje that person with all thheir ****, she can't do that for ya while you do it for her, then find a woman that will take your **** and live happily ever after.
2006-08-24 05:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be scared if you got too attached to her - that's a big part of being in a relationship. Just be yourself and if it starts to go wrong again, maybe it's not to be. She really shouldn't have any problems with someone being attached to her if she wants a relationship though..........
2006-08-24 04:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to giver her space. Do something with yourself and don';t let her become your hobby or your one and only best friend. I think that giving eachother some freedom and time to be alone , makes the realtiosnship stronger in some ways, cause u guys will have tiome to miss eacother. Also take things slow and things should work fine.
2006-08-24 04:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by justinedef 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you went wrong by not talking to her first about how you feel about her. You should have made sure that she is ready for the type of relationship that you are willing to give to her. if you think you scared once what makes you think that you wont scare her again.
Communication is the key
2006-08-24 04:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to not get to attached is to have some self-esteem in yourself. If you being too attached scared her, it's most likely because she thinks you "need" he too much. I had a boyfriend who was like that and he drove me nuts!! Try to not lean on her too much or depend on her too much. Show her you need he to be your friend, lover, companion. I wish you the best!
2006-08-24 04:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by mesina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time apart. Get a hobby. That way, some nights you will be busy and can't see her. It will give you a life away from her, and if it goes belly up again you have some new mates to help keep your chin up.
2006-08-24 04:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Emma W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm exactly the same as you mate, so can't really advise. When I get attatched I want to spend every second with that person.
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2006-08-26 21:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you give her plenty of space and room to breath.
also sit down and discuss this it with her and ask her about this.
she can give u the best answer
2006-08-24 04:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋