he completely lied to me and i never had a clue as to what was going on. he was (and possibly could still be) doing it for a few months..
2006-08-24 04:27:01 · 39 answers · asked by BradsBaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well,if you been with him for three years ,then i know yall been through alot just comeing into the relation and up to now and u didnt leave him right? well then stick this one out set down talk to him telling him how much u love him and that drug thang aint for yall and let him know its time to get help before matters get worse for the both of u, make sure u mention that u will be right there with him every step of the way , but hes going to have to do his part to by going to class and most inportant hes gonna have to wanna stop,(let him know that off top),if he agrees then go from there!
2006-08-24 07:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just move on. You don't need that crap in your life. If he can lie that well about something as serious as coke use for 3 years, then trust me, this is a guy you will NEVER be able to trust. You can't make a relationship work if every time 20 bucks is unaccounted for you wonder what happened to it? and if it has something to do with drugs.
2006-08-24 04:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by teachinmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing it behind your back, he is obviously addicted. People don't hide things like that if it's just a recreational thing. There are no positives when it comes to drugs. He will steal from you, lie to you, put you in dangerous situations-- what if you innocently ride in the car with him, the police pulls you over and finds drugs in the car? You would go down too. Addicts will ruin the lives of the people who love them. That is a fact. You know what to do.
2006-08-24 04:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you talked it over with him? What was his answer? Was it one that you can live with? I don't advise staying with him but I recommend trying to figure out what made him choose this direction. For example a lot of lawyers, businessmen, bankers etc use the stuff to stay sharp around the clock. I don't recommend this but its a reality. Trust your intuition on this one (not your heart).
Good Luck!
2006-08-24 04:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Static__Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him,don't let him give you any excuses nothing he says can be believed as long as he is taking them. Sorry to hear about this I am sure it is very painful for you. Don't vent just say you want more from life then watching him kill himself and lie to you. All the best hugs
2006-08-24 04:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, gee, let's see. He's a coke fiend and he's a liar. What do you think you should do under those circumstances ? Is that someone with whom you want to stay ? I think you have all the information you need, honey.
2006-08-24 04:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mad he didnt share and ask for a back payment in ur best Tony Montana accent for about 2 keys of uncut bolivan flake...lol
2006-08-24 04:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him help. My son's father hid his meth addiction from me for a year. I had to leave. He chose drugs over his own child. If he won't try to quit it's time to quit him. He'll only drag you down. It will be hard to trust him. If he can hide drugs from you what else can he be doing behind your back?
2006-08-24 04:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by jewl_8098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get ride of him as soon as you can. He can bring you into the mess and you would not have a clue about it. If he is lying that good. What else is he lying about?
2006-08-24 04:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lori K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him to take a drug test, if he fails tell him that he needs to go to NA or you'll leave him.
I used to have a coke problem, and so did my boyfriend.. NA really is the best solution, you can't be with a user.
All the best to you.
2006-08-24 04:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋