About 3 months ago I started talking to my highschool sweetheart again. We dated four years and we were in love but he was ready to get married and have children. He was 3 yrs older than me and I wasn't ready for that yet. I still wanted to be with him but wanted to wait on the marriage and children. Anyways, this caused a problem and we ended it. I didn't see or talk to him for almost 6yrs. until recently. He had been living with a girl and she had just left him for a doctor she went to work for and I had just come out of a relationship too. One thing lead to another and we started dating again and it was like all the feelings came back that we used to have. Well, she kept calling him one day and wanted to talk so they did and he took her back!! Just like that, he told me he loved me but he felt like he needed to give her another chance. Then 3days later she leaves him again for the doctor and now he wants me back! What should I do??
2006-08-24 04:25:35 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him if he does that kind of stuff to you then you are better off with out him~!~!~!
You deserve some one that will care for you and will like you no matter what~!~!~!~!~
If he want that kind of relationship then he will have a lot of devours' and you she get the right one and be happy
2006-08-24 04:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u want someone who only wants u as backup?! I cant believe ur actually considering taking him back after he betrayed u, and u were there for him when he needed u. And that is exactly why he calling u again, cause you'll be there. Is this fair to u. What if she comes back in a couple of months? He'll either make up an excuse to end the relationship again, to spare ur feelings, or start cheating with her. Look he's not over her yet, thats why he took her back so easily, u think he's over her now?!
U can do better babe, show him u can do better!
2006-08-24 11:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the both of you got into this re-relationship too soon. You were both on the rebound. The ONLY reason he wants you back is because the other woman has left him again. IF she hadn't been a part of the picture and the two of you had simply parted again he wouldn't be looking for you to go back to him. Obviously he really doesn't want you, he just doesn't want to be alone...tell him to buy a dog.
2006-09-01 03:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him be. He's the confused one. You deserve someone who is going to give you his undivided attention.
2006-08-24 11:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him. He's going to keep doing it.
Tell him no way.
You deserve better
2006-08-24 11:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋