Family & Relationships - 22 August 2006

WHy is it that they have no respect fro themselves, the guy, or the other women? Alot of times its the girls best friend. Are they truly that jealous of the other girl that they have to make themselve sluts, then they get mad when the guy either goes back to his wife/girlfriend or does it to them. If they really loved the guy like they say they wouldnt have slept with him while he was in another relationship. I think the girls who do that to their friends are some of the most disgusting people. its one thing if the girl didnt know he was married because some guys hide it but come on...aynways i would hate to be one of those girls when karma comes back and kicks them in the @ss

2006-08-22 08:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by Trouble 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know why people hold such a candle to marriage.....my problem is one day I want to get married and the next day I don't....am I the only one who feels that way? Any suggestions

2006-08-22 08:56:17 · 38 answers · asked by Tiger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can a woman tell if a man really loves her for her and not for her looks or her money?

2006-08-22 08:54:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am from mexico and i want one to help me stay here

2006-08-22 08:54:34 · 16 answers · asked by jorge 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked someone I know to hold on to a box of Depo Previa Birth Control shots. I bought like 7 of them with the syringe, from a pharmacy overseas. They from were the same American company that sell them here. Only here in the states they cost you $90 each and the doctor visit. They charge $5 a piece. She said she lost them. I heard from a mutual friend, she has now decided to use them. The reason I didn't buy more is because of the expiration date. I figuired it out how many I needed within the expiration period. By now all are expired. Should I tell her or let her find out. I don't want to tell her, I want her to suffer from being a liar and thief?

2006-08-22 08:54:32 · 15 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean dang can't a woman walk around any more?

2006-08-22 08:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I were separated for six months. We are back together 7. This woman calls me and says that she was seeing him when we were separated. I asked, "And your point?" She said that she thought that I should know. Should i care?

2006-08-22 08:53:38 · 67 answers · asked by maya s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I was dating this guy and things were going kinda bad. We hadn't spent to much time together all week and then I just didn't hear from him. I thought it was over between us because we just didn't call each other. Then I got a call from him yesterday as if I had talked to him the day before. I thought we were over. Am I wrong?? And yes I do plan on talking to him but I was just wondering what everyone else thoughts where.

2006-08-22 08:53:35 · 4 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 08:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please be serious. when i ask my b/f if he is looking at porn while im at work hes says no but i know he is, he just doesnt want to tell me. i dont understand why he needs to. he tells me im the best thing that has ever happened to him but sometimes i just know hes doing it. if u were me what would u do? what do u think i should do? this is very serious so please no funny things.

2006-08-22 08:52:17 · 23 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I could really use some advice, my heart is torn again. I'll try to keep this short.
I met a guy 1.5 years ago (6 years younger) we formed an intense friendship very quickly, like we've known each other our whole lives (I never beleived in that either until it happened). We've crossed the friendship line a few times (but never had sex). He has hurt me on more than one occasion, and his actions did nothing to show me that he cared for me as much as he says he does (just the opposite in fact). I broke off our relationship (friendship?)I thought for good this last time and we hadn't talked in three months. Last week he broke up with his girlfriend and he called me and asked if I would give him another chance because he wants to change (and give back to me everything I've given to him and that he loves me (not in love) and that I mean more to him than anyone he has known and I'm the most real person that he has ever had in his life. Should I give him a third chance?

2006-08-22 08:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by manyfacestosee 1 in Friends

It's a whole long drawn out situation and I'd really like to talk to someone about it. I've come here because there's no real bias. You don't know me or the other people involved. If you do wanna help, send me a message with you AIM sn. (please)

2006-08-22 08:51:57 · 10 answers · asked by Alecto 5 in Singles & Dating

this guy in my class is real cute and i had a crush on him since last year and this year i was hoping that we could actually date. but i want to see if he likes me.

2006-08-22 08:51:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then equally abusive relationship with my in-laws. My self-esteem and self-worth has always been down. My parents always told me that I deserved to be all alone and that no one would give a care about me. My mother said to me a million times when I was growing up that she wished I would die.

I am 31 now, and hate myself to death. My husband is great and very supportive, but I cannot pull myself from depression. I have emotionally shut the world out. Even my husband. Pls. tell me how I can help myself besides counselling.

2006-08-22 08:50:41 · 32 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Family

My husband and I got into a fight this morning. He doesn't have a job and I am supporting him and four kids on 300.00 a week. Yet he got mad at me for fussing. He got in my face and yelling and screaming at me and was throwing stuff. I am now scared of him. He said he is sorry and to give him a chance to make it up to me but I don't know. What should I do?

2006-08-22 08:49:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best way to meet good guys if your shy?

2006-08-22 08:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine72003 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 08:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Friends

if a widow is a woman who's husband died, what the word for a man's wife who's died? is there even a word for it?

2006-08-22 08:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just wondeing if I'm too old for this
my boy is 48 but my mind can't make it's self up if it's 20 or 100

2006-08-22 08:47:47 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 08:47:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 08:45:50 · 34 answers · asked by hot babe 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be set up on a blind date
I live near Farmington NM...I have a daughter, and really don't get out that much. But really want companionship

2006-08-22 08:45:14 · 2 answers · asked by charmed3x3 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and im scared the guys i hook up with are goin to dump me becausei wanna save my self for my husband but what if i nver geta husband cuz most guys only stick around if they getting something

2006-08-22 08:45:03 · 6 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother died 4 years ago. before she passed all of us would get together for holidays, go places and do things. It was great. Since then it seems like I am the one who is making the effor to get the family together. i have started a newsletter to keep us all informed about each others families and have started a new tradition of having 4 get togethers a year. the thing is that my older bro and younger sis have slacked on their duties and see nothign wrong with it. they were supposed to host the boys/girls parties this year and they didnt, so my older sis and i ended up footing the bill. i live an hr away from them all, they live about 15 minutes apart. they never see each other. they never come to visit me. always excuses (no car, no money) and i am sick of it. the get-togethers are to show our kids just how important family is but it seems like that isnt the way it really is. I am ready to wipe my hands clean fom them all. Am i wrong for that? its always on me to do it all!

2006-08-22 08:44:56 · 10 answers · asked by mixedchick4blkguys 2 in Family

I'm looking to find a cheaper way to have a wedding. My mom seems to think that we can make alot of the things.I havent come acrossed any sites for this..I would appreciate any sources I can get..

2006-08-22 08:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by houseangel 1 in Weddings

Why is this such a rarely-seen interracial couple? Black men with white women are all over the place, not to mention just about every other combination you could imagine.
What's the deal?

(Just to be clear and avoid thread hijacking, yes, I obviously am a racist, because I am talking about race, and saying the "B" and "W" words, right?)

2006-08-22 08:44:24 · 10 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a single parent with 2 kids. My boyfriend has no kids or been married, & has had no other real relationships. He said he might go to a friend's surprise birthday dinner which was over 3 hours away. The day of the party, I was really having a tough time with my kids, and getting them ready for school and stuff. I spoke with him on the phone around lunch time and he still wasn't sure if he was going. I ended up totally balling on the phone to him. I was so upset I could barely breathe. He told me it was going to be okay and that he was going to head out for the party (he wasn't sure about going as recently as the beginning of our conversation). That was it. He said I should have planned my time better and that it was my own fault I was in this predicament. BTW-he's going to Vegas (this weekend)to celebrate this same friends b-day (so it wasn't like he couldn't have still seen him if he didn't go). He says I am wrong for expecting him to be stay home & help me out.

2006-08-22 08:43:58 · 55 answers · asked by laurarochelle2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I have sleep apneoa and must wear a facial mask to bed. this has a long tube from the mouth to a machine and straps around my head. i now wear it for sex aswell as it helps me to breath better, but my wife keeps singing and humming, "ground control to major tom " its not easy, last night it was " beam him up scotty ".

2006-08-22 08:43:57 · 46 answers · asked by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Can a guy fight back if a girl hit him like below.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7K_Q-04JkOo

What is morally correct? Sit there and take it or hit back?

2006-08-22 08:43:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 08:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by dianne e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships