WHy is it that they have no respect fro themselves, the guy, or the other women? Alot of times its the girls best friend. Are they truly that jealous of the other girl that they have to make themselve sluts, then they get mad when the guy either goes back to his wife/girlfriend or does it to them. If they really loved the guy like they say they wouldnt have slept with him while he was in another relationship. I think the girls who do that to their friends are some of the most disgusting people. its one thing if the girl didnt know he was married because some guys hide it but come on...aynways i would hate to be one of those girls when karma comes back and kicks them in the @ss
2006-08-22 08:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by Trouble 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not saying the man doesnt deserve blame in this also, but being a women she shouldn't go along with it. She wouldnt want it done to her why do it to someone else, that is my point, treat others the way you want to be treated.
2006-08-22 09:11:34 · update #1
guys should be as much to blame as girls are here, but in most cases they arent. It is very sad that many girls would do this and many times the reason the guys persue them is because they know the girls are easy and willing to throw away are morals in life and do what they want. i think people who are willing to screw over good people are the scum of the earth. they shouldnt be allowed to reproduce and pass those wrong morals on in life. this does happen many times in reverse situations. the girl cheats in the guy but this theory is never really talked about. and you are correct one day karma will come back and kick them or someone they love (kids) in the @ss for the decisions they have made in life
2006-08-22 09:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by ITS_ONLY_ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation. Self-loathing. Fear of involvement with a man who's free. Being self-centered. I was the "other woman" many, many years ago, I am ashamed to say. His wife didn't deserve to be cheated on. He was a cheater. I wasn't his first, or his last. What I did was wrong. It was a sin. There's absolutely no excuse for what I did and no way I could ever make it up to her. Because of my experience I always warn women against such behavior.
2006-08-22 09:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let karma take care of such people..I have found from experience they are trying to fill an emptiness within them that only love for oneself can full fill...but they seem to look for it somewhere else, its extremely heart breaking when you've taken care of such a person for so long and they still seek elsewhere without breaking it off with you first.
2006-08-22 09:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our pop cultures all about believeing that we live in a dog eat dog world. The fact is she isn't concerned about the relationship there destroying or making a new one, its all about the moment. Its all about survival not about trying to accomplish anything great or meaningful, just making sure you get your piece to. Its sad yes but you shouldn't just blame the whore like female, guys can be slut puppies to but only the females get the blame...
2006-08-22 09:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're over thinking this.
Sometimes girls sleep with boys because they want to and the opportunity is available. This is the same reason sometimes boys sleep with girls.
It's not the girl's fault if the boy has commitments he doesn't care about. Why don't you put the blame right where it belongs: on the person who broke their promise to be faithful.
I have no covenant not to sleep with your man, but your man has a covenant not to. Who is the villian there?
2006-08-22 09:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kiari 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree the main wife should beat the hell outta both of them
2006-08-22 09:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by ballerinagirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋