im 15 and im scared the guys i hook up with are goin to dump me becausei wanna save my self for my husband but what if i nver geta husband cuz most guys only stick around if they getting something
2006-08-22 08:45:03 · 6 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything you do not wish to do. If a guy cannot accept that you wish to save yourself then he is not worth your time. It is your body and your life. I also wish to save myself for my husband. So many things have changed these days, I mean women use to save their selves for their husbands, but now we are all really messed up. But do what you want to do! If a guy cannot accept that, then he is not what you are looking for!! Good Luck!
2006-08-22 08:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Hockey Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you plan on having future relationships after marriage, don't bother getting married!
But seriously, sex is such a great thing. It's probably the best reason to love being a human in a man's or woman's body.
Don't have sex in order to avoid getting dumped. There is nothing anyone can give you or do for you in exchange for sex, even if that's not dumping you.
Don't just have sex. Make love. And every person can only make love to a certain kind of person. Wait for that person and make love your first time. Trust me. As a man, I can tell you the difference between just having sex and making love is staggering. To a woman it must be like night and day.
My first time (and every other time with her) was making love. The other 2 girls I've slept with, though the SEX was better because I got more experience, the WHOLE EXPERIENCE wasn't anything near making love.
Besides, there are a thousand fun kinky things you can do with and for guys without having actual sexual intercourse. Though in the moment it is hard to resist...be careful.
2006-08-22 16:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could if the guy wants sex! If he does not get it from you, he may try to find it elsewhere; and it could lead to a breakup! My opion is if you want a understanding guy who also belives in waiting, and will suport your wanting to wait, try finding a guy with christain values!
2006-08-23 11:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by lovethemsixties 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for your age i like where your headed but listen it will affect your relationships in the future not as much now tho, but I think its a good plan for you to try and stay true to good luck, peace
2006-08-22 15:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young to think about sex. better to go around with guys and have fun.
2006-08-22 16:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both man and woman will never forget the first on in her/his life-and this will keep the marriage for ever
2006-08-22 15:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by gab-king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋