I have sleep apneoa and must wear a facial mask to bed. this has a long tube from the mouth to a machine and straps around my head. i now wear it for sex aswell as it helps me to breath better, but my wife keeps singing and humming, "ground control to major tom " its not easy, last night it was " beam him up scotty ".
2006-08-22 08:43:57 · 46 answers · asked by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry, but you either need to get a sense of humour or take the mask off. Your missus wants to screw you, not Darth Vader!
2006-08-22 08:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
She is trying to make the best of a bad job. Have you considered it from her point of view?
It can't be easy keeping the mood for sex when your partner is wearing a mask with a tube attached to a machine.
2006-08-22 10:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey man i know apneoa is is way harsh what with all that forgetting to breathe and stuff but your wife is possibly trying to deal with it as well make light of it man. be darth vader or something for the night she is supporting you even by having sex while you wear the mask dont take her comments to heart.
2006-08-22 08:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by lipsucnt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get a grip. Your C-pap machine is for when you are sleeping to keep your breathing at a regular pace. It is NOT for wearing when you are awake and above all, it is NOT for wearing during sex. It does not help you breathe better, it regulates breathing! I would have said more than 'beam me up Scotty' and don't think it would have induced you to proceed with sexual advances.
2006-08-22 08:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lol! sry it's funny but I know...she could be at least a little bit more sensitive, that was not very nice. It's hard when those circumstances happen. Tell her!!! I keep telling everyone on here to talk to their partners! Communication is the key! It works trust me!.
2006-08-22 09:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Twiggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother uses the mask as well and am confused as to exactly how you have sex with that on. Why don't you wait until afterward to put the mask on? I am sure that it is just as aggravating for your wife as it for you to wear that during intimate times.
2006-08-22 08:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for a married couple especially- there are vows that say for better or worse- i think she is being very insensitive to say the least. If she has a problem with it- how deep is the love to begin with. Personally i would rather make love to than humiliate my loved one........regardless of the situation!!!
2006-08-22 08:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by awwwnry1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh for heaven's sake - the forced air in the tube for sleep apnea is so that when you RELAX and your soft palate drops, the air is forced into your lungs so you don't DIE. You don't need it for sex, for cryin' out loud. Hopefully, when you and your wife are having sex, you are WIDE AWAKE and EXCITED - and there is no need to force air into your lungs.
Can you imagine what it looks like to her to be looking into the face of a Borg when she is having sex ? I'm surprised she hasn't said, "Resistance is futile."
Take the damn thing off.
2006-08-22 09:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by two 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not sleeping when you are doing it so take it off! Those things are not attractive at all and that would be a turn off for me. Lose some weight, maybe you won't have to wear it at all if you do that.
2006-08-22 09:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hahahaahahahahaaaha that is the funniest thing i have heard all day beam me up scotty hahahahahaha.Well next time she does that tell her she can go into another room and use her finger and strum to the beat "all by myself"!!
2006-08-22 08:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋