I could really use some advice, my heart is torn again. I'll try to keep this short.
I met a guy 1.5 years ago (6 years younger) we formed an intense friendship very quickly, like we've known each other our whole lives (I never beleived in that either until it happened). We've crossed the friendship line a few times (but never had sex). He has hurt me on more than one occasion, and his actions did nothing to show me that he cared for me as much as he says he does (just the opposite in fact). I broke off our relationship (friendship?)I thought for good this last time and we hadn't talked in three months. Last week he broke up with his girlfriend and he called me and asked if I would give him another chance because he wants to change (and give back to me everything I've given to him and that he loves me (not in love) and that I mean more to him than anyone he has known and I'm the most real person that he has ever had in his life. Should I give him a third chance?
2006-08-22 08:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by manyfacestosee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A man can change, but this gay seems to use you as a filler when no one is for him to hang out!
2006-08-22 09:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by dnagsarkar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always forgive but never forget. You should let him go. I don't know why people try to hang on to people that they know that they have been hurt by. And when he broke up with his girlfriend and called on the phone and said he loved you. Yeah right. You were just a booty call. If he don't have a girl under his arm he has to hurry up and find a girl, so he can show his people that he got game and that girls are all over him. I don't care how cute he is. Let him go. Don't even try to settle or fix things between him and you. I believe in second chances, but not in no third. Let him goooooooo.
2006-08-22 16:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by zjraheem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do say "third times the charm" so i say yes one more chance if you feel that he really has changed and really loves you. I think that maybe he has changed and really does love you if he didnt i dont think he would have called you. Go for it hun, give him another chance i can tell that you love him
2006-08-22 16:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I want to tell you yes. But I've given this guy so many chances and honestly it has messed me up so bad. You might want to bail while you are halfway free!
2006-08-22 16:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH LIFE THAT MEN CHANGE ONLY WHEN GOD IS INVOLVED, WHY?? BECAUSE HE HAS THE POWER, HE CREATED US, HE KNOWS US BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE CAN EVER KNOW US. PEOPLE CAN CHANGE BUT SOMETIMES THEY ONLY DO IT FOR A COUPLE MONTHS AND THEN GO BACK TO THEIR OLD HABITS. GOD HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE PEOPLE AND OF COURSE, THAT PERSON HAS TO PUT HIS/HER PART AS WELL!! HOPE I DONT SOUND DUMB!!!
2006-08-22 16:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a leopard never changes its spots
2006-08-22 16:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mister Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i DON'T THINK SO BECAUSE IF YOU KEEP TAKING HIM BACK HE GOING TO KEEP ON DOING THE SAME THAN B/CUZ HE KNOWS U WILL TAKE HIM BACK SO PUT A STOP TO DAT
3 STRIKES YOUR OUT TYME TO MOVE ON!!! TO BIGGER AND BETTER
2006-08-22 16:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't change - tell him to move on.
2006-08-22 16:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did u have to say that nasty word.and no guys don't change!!!!!DAW
2006-08-22 16:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Capricorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋