Family & Relationships - 19 August 2006

ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. he's the most wonderfull boyfriend in the world. he tells me he loves me and that im beautiful every day. several times a day. we've had many talks about my jealousy. and i just cant stop letting it ruin my life. i've been alot better about hiding it, but then it makes me feel awful and want to die. if were watching a movie and a naked girl or girl thats not wearing much comes on, i get mad. if i think i see him glance at another girl in real life or in a magazine or on tv, i get mad. its not fair to him i know. i know its normal to think other people are attractive. i admit that i think other men ((and women)) are attractive. and so did he. and that should be okay but then i still feel sad and sick to my stomach. someone please help me...i just want to be normal and ok with this. my bf doesnt deserve to be treated badly like this. how can i be ok with him thinking other women are attractive? help!

2006-08-19 09:23:15 · 3 answers · asked by urmomma987654 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you guys and girls think about the website http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com ? and has anybody here ever posted a cheating guy or maybe a cheating girl on that website?

2006-08-19 09:23:03 · 3 answers · asked by bunnywomen69 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so I was going out with this girl for a short while, and a couple of times we didnt use a condom, and now shes pregnant. im for sure the father. problem is i am 18 and moving far away to college in a couple weeks... me and this girl are over. im telling her to get an abortion(its only been like 2 months), but she doesnt really want to. Now, i dont want a child in my life at all, specially since im in no position to support it. Not only that, I dont want to. I cant stand the girl at all anymore. So im wondering .... whats the deal with child support and stuff like that? and do you guys have any suggestions?

2006-08-19 09:22:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Videos, Internet, camera phones, video phones, use of jpeg and movie files

All apparently have had porn responsible for their development and funding etc...or sex.

How true is that?

Example video phones... As most people did not have them not much use except for couple who got a pair to send videos...

Plus why get videos out when you could go to the cinema... unless it was to see something you were embarrased to see in that kind of cinema...

Likewise When the internet started out and even now what percentage of the traffic is sex related? So no more embarrasment getting the magazine for 'er dad'

2006-08-19 09:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can i put into my engine search (words or web sites) that will help me find a past and previous forwarding address of someone? From my previous questions, My husband was adopted and is trying to find his mother. We know her old address from 10 years ago, and we found his biological father's last address, but we cant seem to find the present recent forwarding address. Any suggestions?

2006-08-19 09:21:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im in love with this guy, and he says he loves me to. i have no reason not to belive him but i dont. we are suppost to be getting married next year. im just so scared hes goin to leave me. im scared to ask if he really does. ive been hurt so many times befor. do i ask?

2006-08-19 09:20:50 · 13 answers · asked by ajiel07 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 09:20:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he always played hot and cold the next. i realise now i didnt need that. the thing is i think about him when we had good times, but i think the quicker i get a new boyfriend the quicker i will get over him. there is a boy who i like and he likes me too, should i go for it?? i dont want to mourn over something that will ruin my confidence for good. im not cocky but i feel i deserve better than someone treating me like **** on his shoe.

2006-08-19 09:19:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't want to freeze and not remember what to say to him in person. anyone got some tips???

2006-08-19 09:19:08 · 3 answers · asked by cuban_girl123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not sure what to to think about it

2006-08-19 09:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not satisfied with my destiny and I do not tkink that I am able to change something. So, I have forever to regret for what has been done. In fact, I do not know what have I done to deserve this?

2006-08-19 09:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am friends with a guy at work and his wife always calling me on my cell phone.
She has offered to give me a full body massage.
She always flirting with me. If she does give me massage and nothing more would it be cheating on her husband? I am single if that matters.

2006-08-19 09:16:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i first decided it was a good plan and God's plan, to wait for sex till marriage one of my ideas was that if i waited, i would have a happily ever after marriage and everything would always be fine. I thought my wife would never be able to yell at me saying "you never loved me..it was always about the sex" like i heard in my own household a few times.

But...I think i wasn't being rational with my earlier thinking. There still will be fights and even a possible divorce, even if sex is waited for. I think just because we overcame one temptation doesn't mean everything will be fine always.
So..can i have some new positive light on why one still should wait? Will the marriage be at all better if the couple did wait?

2006-08-19 09:16:18 · 16 answers · asked by ryan s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-19 09:15:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i liked a boy in my school before we graduated but he never got 2 know and it was for a long time.But i think he liked me before but i dont know about now and now he's left to America and i am going to london.What do i do?

2006-08-19 09:15:16 · 1 answers · asked by Sheridan 1 in Friends

2006-08-19 09:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by ki-ki 3 in Singles & Dating

At our high school, we had a back to school dance last night, and I was going to ask a girl to go to the dance with me, but right before that, I found out that she had a boyfriend. Even though we were not going out, it took me weeks to build up the courage to ask her something like that, and I was really disappointed. Then, when they had a slow dance song, (this may come out as girly, but whatever) I was stuck in the back with mostly people whose boyfriends/ girlfriends never showed up. I also had to watch all of the girls that I like/ used to like dance with their boyfriends, and I felt sort of left out. I'm really shy, not very popular, and I've never had a girlfriend before, but my questions are, how do I get girls to like me or to notice me, how do I find out if they like me, how do I become less shy n more popular, and how do I ask them out or get the courage to? I know its a lot of questions, and you don't have to answer all of them, but any help would be appreciated.

2006-08-19 09:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if i am there alone and someone approaches me.....what do i say when they ask y i am alone??? i just think ppl will think i am a loser who has no friends!!!! i am NOT!!! i am so outgoing and i just wanna go have FUN...HELP

2006-08-19 09:12:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 09:12:51 · 13 answers · asked by DayTrippin 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to answer questions truthfully and sincerely. but I feel the same question from a 13 year old and a 20 year old may have a different answer. I try to relate and understand fear of the unknown. It may be easy to sugguest but hard to do. don't you think people should give there age when asking a relationship question. whereas the 26 year old may be sizing up a life partner while the 13 year old is experimenting. I do realize , It's just as important and in some cases more important, but you can't get a proper answer without this peice of information. Agree/or not-explain

2006-08-19 09:12:49 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay...been dating this woman for about 3 months now and we've just began to get intimate. Sex is very uncomfortable for her she says. Its gotten to the point where she only wants to do oral. I can't help what the good Lord has blessed me with, but I really like this woman and I dont want give her up. We've talked about it at length and she pretty much feels the same way. But I cant chop any of it off. What r some alternatives?

2006-08-19 09:11:56 · 17 answers · asked by bigsexy2896 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner & I broke up 6 months ago. We were always arguing, so she moved out. We had been together for 3 years. Now she wants to get back together, but she said everytime she gets around me that her stomach knots up & she get sick to her stomach. What do you do to correct this and why does she feel like this? You can't get back together if she feels like this. She said she still loves me.

2006-08-19 09:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy I've been seeing for over 3 years and love and care about and thought he felt the same, asked me to be with his friend and him. Someone I don't know. I refused out of respect for myself. (This came out of no where.) He told me he'd find another female to do it then. That it was easy. But he asked me first because he cared about me and had feelings for me. He said it was my choice, me or another woman.That he was being honest. I said I can't. I don't want to. You always said not to do something you didn't feel comfortable doing. If you do this you lose me. You'd want me to do this act toward your friend more than keeping me in your life? His response: Are you down or not? I said no. Then he said those are the other females on the other line, I'll talk to you whenever and hung up. I thought he was just drunk and would let it go, no. I feel like everthing was a lie and I meant nothing to him, he didn't care, that he gave me up just because I wouldn't do a sexual act on his friend.

2006-08-19 09:11:15 · 12 answers · asked by SIL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I missed out. Damn

2006-08-19 09:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by chetahbill 4 in Singles & Dating

Her new boyfriend told me to leave after I kicked him in the back. Mommy had just made me a fried bologna sandwich and as I was about to eat it, he grabbed it and ran out the kitchen laughing. Well I kicked him in the back real hard with my steel toe cowboy boots. I tried to tell Mommy that he is no good, but she told me to get out and that he loves her and is taking her to Goodwill to pick out some new curtains and a living room set that they have on hold for her. I think he is a jerk, and she is using him for his money. He does pretty well for himself. He makes about $550 biweekly. Why is Mommy putting money and a man before her son. I'm 31 and I have nowhere to go??? I will be staying with my uncle Bulldog for two weeks, but then he said I got to go as well. I need help Yahoo.

2006-08-19 09:09:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

CAN ANYBODY EMAIL ME I WANNA MAKE ALOT OF FRIENDS AND MEET NEW PEOPLE IM BORED WITH MY OLD FRIENDS.IM A CHIK

2006-08-19 09:09:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the wildest thing u've ever done

2006-08-19 09:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by blake 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister got engaged and her fiancee cheats on her behind her back what should I do? She won't beleive me.

2006-08-19 09:05:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 22 years. My husband has never had a strong sex drive, but I have. We have gone as long as 2 years without sex, but generally have it only twice a year. When we do, it is incredible. HE is very sensitive to my needs and I adore every part of him. IT just isn't as important to him as it is to me. I have made it through these past 20+ years with self gratification and self denial. The other night, I found myself out on the town, alone, and I met a man. I was so strongly attracted to him and he to me. HE walked me to my car and kissed me. IT is funny, but at first, I really felt nothing. Then I thought about the last time I had ben kissed like that and I honestly couldn't remember. When I kiss my husband, he turns his lips to the side as if he is kissing a frog or something...Anyway, all this was going through my mind when I realized just how much I love kissing. Real kissing. I kissed him back and the passion started. After some fondling, we had to break it off as we both had to get home to our spouses. I can't stop thinking about this man. I never realized just how much I need that kind of touch.

2006-08-19 09:05:22 · 44 answers · asked by WannaCheat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you a real romantic? Even if you have been with someone for a long time, do you still romance them? I think it's something that you need to keep a relationship healthy. I think both men and women like to be romanced. What do you think?

2006-08-19 09:04:50 · 1 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Other - Family & Relationships