I am friends with a guy at work and his wife always calling me on my cell phone.
She has offered to give me a full body massage.
She always flirting with me. If she does give me massage and nothing more would it be cheating on her husband? I am single if that matters.
2006-08-19 09:16:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take her up on it. You could end up in big trouble with her husband. She wants to screw you and this is her way of getting what she wants.
2006-08-19 09:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does his wife have your phone number (she looked it up in their telephone book?)? Can you honestly say that it would only be a massage? In any case, it is completely inappropriate for his wife to be not just phoning you but flirting and offering to give you a body massage.
I'll put it this way; put yourself into your friend's shoes, and think how you would feel about your wife giving very personal attention to your friend.
2006-08-19 16:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! Get away from her, fast. No need to jeopardize something as special as friendship over a broad.
As for massage, there is a lot of it available all over the globe.
2006-08-19 16:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the offer to massage is just a way to get you naked and OOPS we had sex - "it just kind of happened" - the massage would not be cheating but when she slides up on top and starts to ride the pony that would be cheating - do not put yourself in the position were something bad will happen - avoid her
2006-08-19 16:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it i would keep my space! Things could only get messy! What if she tried something? What would her boyfriend think of the situation? It could be taken in many ways, although a back message sounds good and relaxing i wouldn't go there. Plus i would feel arkward
2006-08-19 16:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if she is a massager. Do you have a sexual relationship? Does she talk sex to you? I really think she is just friendly.. May be you have more on your mind.. Question yourself, Why did she offer the massage? It is not adultry until you commit adultry.. Zella
2006-08-19 16:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you...I would go to my friend and ask him what he thinks.
If his wife is a masseuse then that is fine.
But if she is not, then it is wrong.
Because if this is NOT what she does for a living then you know damn well that a body massage IS NOT want she wants to do to you.
And you may be single but she is not.
2006-08-19 16:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be single, but she isn't. Come on, do you think she is offering a medical type massage? Don't think so!
2006-08-19 16:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by historybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word..NO. As long as u do not have sex or she does not jack
u off, just give you massage.
2006-08-19 16:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be cheating, of a kind, she obviously wants more and you would be encouraging her to think there might be more one day. Besides you work with him - so DON"T DO IT. Good luck.
2006-08-19 16:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋