im in love with this guy, and he says he loves me to. i have no reason not to belive him but i dont. we are suppost to be getting married next year. im just so scared hes goin to leave me. im scared to ask if he really does. ive been hurt so many times befor. do i ask?
2006-08-19 09:20:50 · 13 answers · asked by ajiel07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U have gotta start believing him.
Ask & keep asking 4 reassurance if the man truly loves U, he'll not mind confirming the obvious.
I still ask my man, 21 years later & he always answers me with the same "I'm not going anywhere".
but do try not 2 go over board huh?
Once a day is plenty!
2006-08-19 09:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask him you could be asking for trouble. You shouldn't have to ask. He is marrying that should tell you right there that he loves you. You have to have trust in him, yourself, and your relationship. You have been hurt in the past. A lot of people have. you are not alone on that. You have a man in your life, who is there for you, who wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Don't let your past ruin this for you. You can't change the past, and he is not your past, he is your present and future. Trust that he will not leave you.
2006-08-19 16:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you fine as LOVE ? YES ask the dude whats up tell him who wears the pants in the house and let him know that if you get married that he is going no were but crazy with you and if he says ????? leave his butt before he leaves you FROM THE CrAcKeR
2006-08-19 16:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must face your fears. Even though you are scared, you must realize that you are going to be with this man for the rest of your life. Ask him before its too late. I know how it feels to be shy, but you shouldn't put this off. Good luck.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-08-19 16:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be married to someone if you don't know whether he loves you or not. you should only marry to someone who you know that DOES love you, and won't leave you no matter what. you shouldn't walk into a marriage for the rest of your life guessing whether he does love you or not, or if he's going to leave you.
2006-08-19 16:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do ask. if you love him then tell him your worst fear and learn his. i've been hurt way to much also but i learn knowing fear and passing it stops alot of the insecure tihngs that stop what could be makin you really happy in life.
2006-08-19 16:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by skott p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to know, so please do ask!! It's your future and it should be important to you. And what is the reason that you are not believeing?
2006-08-19 16:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by MariLin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love some one so ask him for a date
2006-08-19 16:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wouldn;t want to marry you if he didn't love you but be open with him and tell him how you feel maybe he can help and reassure you
2006-08-19 16:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! he'll understand. you never want to be unsure on your wedding day its the wrong way to go. ask away he'll understand
2006-08-19 16:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by amber_woodland2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋