Family & Relationships - 19 August 2006

There's this guy who's asked me out, he's perfect and an old mate which I think is a great bonus, this would be my first major relationship (i'm nearly 18 btw). However in the past i've always prevented telling my parents cos we're not an emotional family (we don't hug etc...) and I didn't really see anything going on with the relationships to warrant all the questions taht they're bound to ask. This one is different and I definitely see a great relationship for the future. I would like to get to form our relationship first before he's introduced to my parents cos I tend to feel very uncomfortable when my parents and friends are together cos they tend to be very nosy.
Would it be unreasonable to maybe not tell them about him until I feel that it's heading somewhere?
Also how would you as a guy feel if your gf turned around and said exactly what i've said?
I know it sounds selfish not including my parents but I don't like the uncomfortable feeling taht I often get with my parents.

2006-08-19 10:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by lou2egi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-19 10:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by ang_macd2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What can I do to make my friends do the things I want to do, to go to places where I want them to go with me and to agree with me more often? It seems that, although they are good friends, sometimes they just don't want to listen to me, they don't understand me and they don't take my opinions into consideration.

What can I do to improve this situation (I'd like some advices in manipulating them a little)? I'm not a mean person, I just want to be respected more.

2006-08-19 10:10:51 · 25 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Friends

2006-08-19 10:09:41 · 41 answers · asked by jessie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today, I attended a soccer game for my 7 years old son.
His father (my ex) never saw him play this season and he decided to come and spend the day with us on the field.

Once there, I was chatting a little (20% of the time), cheering much (80%) with the mothers of the other players (I saw them twice a week, every week during summer).

After I was done talking with others, my ex politely told me that I was making my son sad when I was not watching him play.

I asked my son if he was sad when I was not watching and he did not notice, he was having fun. Games were for fun... nothing competitive.

What do you think? Should I take his advice and ignore others when my son is on the field playing any sports?

2006-08-19 10:09:36 · 15 answers · asked by Shaana 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

a hot lil chick

2006-08-19 10:06:49 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy C.C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy from far away and we have been talkin for while and i have really gotten to know him and i have began to like him and fall for him, but he has a girl friend and that is really depressing and i wanted to know if i should tell him how i feel, i think hes really special and that i do think about him alot but i know that nothing can happen, what do i do

2006-08-19 10:05:53 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine girl 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy i like but he likED my best friend but im still crazy about him and dont kno wat to do. i really want to tell him but im scared ppl will think im a back stabber. but wat ppl dont kno is that i liked him before they were a thing and i told my best friend that but she still went for him .i really want to tell him befor i graduate in 2007 so that i dont have to live askin myself "would he have liked me if i asked?" but im to scared to look like a fool. can anyone help me???

2006-08-19 10:04:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it Possible to have a true love between two men with respect and honest with strong friendship until they end, notice that I don't meant homosexuality!

2006-08-19 10:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-19 10:03:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-19 10:02:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known him for about three years and through out those three years he has always just said hi or talked about schools tuff with me like any other person you'd meet at school.
I really like him a lot because he's a funny and caring person but he is chubby. In the world that I live in now it's all about popularity and looks. I've got some popularity and some looking when he is in the middle class of highschool.
Please help me with my problem

signed
needy in school

2006-08-19 10:02:25 · 21 answers · asked by dolphinsrus91 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's teaching them financial responsibility, or are you just spoiling them?

2006-08-19 10:01:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy was lonely and wanted to talk to a female are the chances that he would find one that would be willing to call him good or bad? What if he was willing to call her? Would it matter if he was very handsome and had a nice deep voice? Do women consider those things or do they need to see a picture?

2006-08-19 10:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by showmeyourshowumine 1 in Singles & Dating

Why, why not?

2006-08-19 10:00:54 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

they hav to be in comer,ga and in the 8th grade.im punk.im 14
im single.

2006-08-19 10:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The wrong name during sex? What happened afterwards?

2006-08-19 10:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and i think he likes me too, and i want ot ask him out its just i dont know if its weird for a girl to ask a guy out. cuz i sorta believe that a guy should be the one to ask a girl out. what do u think? should i ask him out?!

2006-08-19 10:00:28 · 33 answers · asked by greenelephants33 1 in Singles & Dating

when i love someone he didnt love me,and the one i didnt love he falls in love with me!!!!!!!!

2006-08-19 09:59:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As I have done in the past, I am once again accusing him of cheating. There is no evidence that he has ever or is now being less than faithful. My accusations are based entirly on my own insecurities and unfounded suspicions. He is now as he has been in the past angered and offended at the accusations. Many of you helpful answerers have told me that his anger at my alligations toward him are a sign of guilt. If he is now at his wits end and so angry with my blowing this (basically nothing) way out of proportion, that is within a fraction of an inch of dumping me, does that mean he is extra guilty this time ? Or is he just sick and tired of the same old twisted sh...it ?

2006-08-19 09:59:43 · 18 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for about six years now, she takes real good care of and has become very close with my daughter, age 10, but we've grown apart- She has let herself go, gained weight,
hangs out with and confides in her best friend more and more-
She is angry all the time....What do I do??

2006-08-19 09:59:22 · 4 answers · asked by racers edge 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

About a year ago my wife and I decided to move out of state.. we spent almost 4g to do it and one of the main driving forces in the decision is that her parents lived where we were moving to.
About a month and a half after getting where we were going she got mad and left me.. we hadnt had the best marriage but far from the worst. I said and did some really horrible things to her but she did the same. so now I live a thousand miles away from everything ive ever known.. her parents (The only people I know in the area) wont have anything to do with me.. she moved back to the state we came from..left me with all the debt and bills.. and is telling me its over. What are the chances that a marriage in this condition might have a chance of being restored? I was supposed to go to counseling and all that which I never did.. only after she really left have I taken that seriously. I want to know what I should do to get her to change her mind and come home. This is so incredibly lonely.. HELP!!!!

2006-08-19 09:58:02 · 7 answers · asked by althor989 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you had 24 hours left to live how would u live it
i think i would love to talk to my family n friends and boyfriend and do crazy wild things

2006-08-19 09:57:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-19 09:57:44 · 5 answers · asked by Nate Dorsey 1 in Singles & Dating

I know. Time. But, still, how much do you hate it when you think back and you KNOW this person wasn't right for you, you didn't get along more than you did get along, but you still find yourself looking at their picture and just wishing maybe you could get one more day to try again.

*sigh*

Or maybe I'm just being sentimental. I dunno.

2006-08-19 09:57:04 · 2 answers · asked by Sullivan Smith 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like a one night stand..I tried adultfinder and some other websites but to send the people messeges u have to me a gold or silver member and u have to pay for that..

2006-08-19 09:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by Kobe4MVP 1 in Singles & Dating

first I should say that I am +18.a couple of years over 18 !!!
then,I want 2 experience s*x,I mean before this,I felt I was not ready,but now I feel ready and I want 2 do that.
I need some hints.what should I do?
is finding a s-l-u-t girl from nightclub a good idea or I should make a relationship with a nice girl first? or I should pay and do?
I am really confused about it.please tell me what to do and please tell me the details not just a sentence.

2006-08-19 09:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Actually, I am trying to figure out what to call this behavior.
I have to admit I am not such a good face to face communicator. I rather not talk for a while to the person & try to forget about the problem.

Now, let's say something goes wrong with this person (my ex, father of my children) and I decide to talk to him about the situation.
We end up never talking about it because if we set up a date to discuss, he will have something better to do on that day, his car will be at the garage or because it's never the time (we're having a good time or there are people around).. any excuse is good to dodge a 'serious' conversation with me.

To this day, I am still accumulating unresolved problems for the past 9 years now, with him. I am frustrated. We never resolve anything. I tried email. I don't want to be at war with him. The problems are not vital...
What do you call this behavior?
And how can I nail him down to have a serious discussion with him?

2006-08-19 09:56:26 · 20 answers · asked by Shaana 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to bang a girl I know in a few hours.
Not knowing her past I better give hear a
"once over" what kinda signs, symptons I look for to see if she has an S.T.D??????

2006-08-19 09:54:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has had a history of bad relationships. For some reason the guy always seems great, but ends up treating her badly. I'm not sure if she attracts the wrong guys or doesn't leave because she is so used to the bad treatment. As her friend, I don't want to get mad at her or tell her what to do, but I want to help her end this cycle of bad men in her life. Last night she called me crying because she went home from the bar with a guy whom she used to have a thing with, who always treated her like dirt. Same old story last night, he slept with her, then hid her clothes, all while his friends were laughing, basically threw her out with no money, just her pants and a jacket and forced her to walk home, which was a pretty far walk. She knows she shouldnt see guys like this, and I've told her that as well but what can I do to help her without preaching or trying to be her mom? All of my other friends do that and she hates it, and has closed them off. What should I do?

2006-08-19 09:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by ashlee85 1 in Singles & Dating