I like this guy from far away and we have been talkin for while and i have really gotten to know him and i have began to like him and fall for him, but he has a girl friend and that is really depressing and i wanted to know if i should tell him how i feel, i think hes really special and that i do think about him alot but i know that nothing can happen, what do i do
2006-08-19 10:05:53 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Y does this sound so familiar to me? Oh, because i've been thru it! LOL! But only difference between u and me, was me and this guy went to the same school..had the same class. He had a girlfriend. I really cared for him a lot, and he did the same. Matter of fact, i still do. With me, it was love, but beside the point, the fact was he had a girlfriend. He and i both knew how he felt about each other. We hung out a lot..most ppl thought it was us who was dating and not the other chick. But I always had respect for him having a girlfriend, and he always had respect for his girlfriend. No matter how much we cared for each other, he knew he couldn't just up and dump this girl..he had to have an "legitimate excuse" as he put it. But he really liked her once. Eventually, he did break up with the girl, only thing was, I went off to school. we lost touch for a while, but got back in touch. The point is, if he has a girlfriend, u always have to show respect for that. Don't have any negative feelings toward it, don't force him to call it quits (this is if u know the guy likes u while he's in a relationship with some1 else.) U must be patient. If it's meant 2 be, it will happen. That is, if it's meant 2 be. Patience is the key.
Peace n love......
2006-08-19 10:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off, He wouldn't still be with his girlfriend if he wanted you.
What if he likes you back? What will happen then, either you'll end up being his "bit on the side and everyone will think your cheap or he'll leave his girlfriend for you and you'll be a relationship wrecker.
What if he doesn't like you back? Wouldn't you rather have this guy in your life as a friend rather than ruining the friendship by telling him how you feel. At the end of the day he has a girlfriend.
Im not trying to sound like a cow hun i'm just trying to explain where this could lead. Your worth so much more than that, Tell him if you think it will make you feel better but if you do, be prepared for things to not go as you may imagaine.
If you like this lad and he likes you back, take it slow and make sure he finishes with his girlfriend and has at least a few week being "single" before you get together.
2006-08-19 10:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by kirsty1416 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I think that you have to think what you want and what is important to you I mean if you value this guy as a friend then maybe it would be good to tell him how you feel and then that might help a little I don't really have a very good answer because I don't really find myself in that situation but one thing I do think is that if you want to be friends with this guy then perhaps you should maybe think about telling him and getting it off your chest other wise it is just going to mount up inside you and may result in you having bad feelings in the end
Good Luck with your desision
XXX
Jay
2006-08-19 10:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if i was you i would not tell him yet, chances are he may already have a feeling you feel like this. do you speak in person or is it an internet thing? you are probably giving off signals your not aware of! Does he speak about his girlfriend often? if so in what form? is it a loved up way or a nagging, she is doing my head in im bored way? if it is the first sorry babe you have no chance for he only has eyes for that lady! have you ever thought that this may be just a faze your going through and your more loved up with the idea and not the man himself. question his life with the little mrs and play it by ear does he flirt with you or is it wishfall thinking on your part
2006-08-19 10:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by NICOLA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Keep walking. Don't be a sleeze. Would you want someone who just up and left or cheated on his girl? He'd do the same to you. If it is meant to be, you all will get together in time. Don't pursue or remain open to it. Even Linsay Lohan says, "That's bad karma." Sorry to quote her... but tis true.
2006-08-19 10:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and take your mind off him. if you tell him and he rejects you ya mite be wasting your time and end up hurt. plus you might also be wrecking a relationship which is not a good thing. go to a club and find other interesting boys, you will soon find somebody who wont waste your time and perhaps get e really loving boyfriend
2006-08-19 10:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On
2006-08-19 10:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont tell him how u feel then ur totally wasting ur time..... take a chance he might like you too. Maybe he'll break up wit his gf for you but ull never kno if u dont tell him u like him
2006-08-19 10:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by baby gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem and i'm like in love with him but i can't do anything but tell him how i feel
2006-08-19 10:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by hot_blonde_2952 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he breaks up with her, then make you rmove.
2006-08-19 10:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by boaqdhyaj hampanirekyui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋