I've known him for about three years and through out those three years he has always just said hi or talked about schools tuff with me like any other person you'd meet at school.
I really like him a lot because he's a funny and caring person but he is chubby. In the world that I live in now it's all about popularity and looks. I've got some popularity and some looking when he is in the middle class of highschool.
Please help me with my problem
signed
needy in school
2006-08-19 10:02:25 · 21 answers · asked by dolphinsrus91 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a typical high maintenance little school girl .If you have to think about it then do the guy a favor and leave him alone. You will just end up embarrassing him
2006-08-19 10:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know, sometimes a guy who isn't the best looking is the same guy who treats u like a queen. The point is honey, this guy makes u happy..it's not always about the looks. The world should stop judging each other on that stuff. I know some ppl who have the best looking men in the world but those same good looking men treat them like crap. U don't need to worry about looks girl. The question is, r u happy with him? R u comfortable with him? N the most important question is, is it every1 else u worried about, or is it u worrying about his looks? U need to think about that gyrl. What makes u happy? And ONLY u...not ur mama, pops, ur friends or any1 else. It's none of their business. It's all about what YOU want; what YOU feel. Take that it2 consideration, n u'll be a'ight about whatever choice u go with.
Peace n love.......
2006-08-19 10:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about YOUR world and not just the whole world around us. Who cares what ANYONE else thinks!! You've seen several people with a mates who are less attractive in some way because looks are only a benefit, and a vain one at that. You create your own middle class, popularity, etc. All that means nothing in the long run, trust me. You like him then you should Go for it, girl!
2006-08-19 10:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you will soon learn in the Real World..................
Being superficial gets you nowhere. Do yourself a favor and GROW UP. You need to remember that if you put a value scale to men and women, Men become more valuable with age and women decrease in value. You apparently like this guy so get over the stuff that means nothing ( Looks , Popularity). And take a chance on a guy who sounds like a great person. He may surprise you. Good Luck........................................
2006-08-19 10:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, in today's world, you won't and up with this guy long term. However, long-term, the inside is hugely more important. If you are atracted to him, ask him out. If you are ectremely lucky, you will learn this lesson and may just have found the love of your life.
Very best of luck...
BTW - It may not seem like it now but the social scene at school is meaningless in your future.
Also - If your friends don't understand this and support you in it, they are not really your friends...
2006-08-19 10:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Steven H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks shouldn't mean everything. If you like his personalitly, go out with him. Some people would say that my boyfriend is kind of geeky, but he has a wonderful personality and thats why I love him. All that matters is your opinion about the person, not everyone elses. Good luck!
2006-08-19 13:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by bethnicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy it shouldnt matter what other people think, I kno people might be harsh on some people because of their looks but imagine how he feels having to be the one to look like that so if you really like him you should be with him and not care what other people say, screw them no one is perfect. You wouldnt be doing the right thing if u let other people tell u who u should go out with.
2006-08-19 10:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so, what's the problem?
Imagine that, just last year, your b.f. was the BEST LOOKING GUY in the world, and you got married!
But, his ex-g.f. ran over his head with her car as you were leaving the reception.
And, after a YEAR of plastic surgery, the best they could do is make him look EXACTLY like your b.f actually DOES look, right now.
So, do you divorce him for being too ugly for a good-looking high-class broad like you?
Or aren't looks that important?
2006-08-19 13:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by L.V. Ames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, looks isn't everything!!!! Its better to have someone who is a good person and a nice guy, than a guy that looks good but treats you like crap!! You will figure that out when you get a little older. Believe me! Personality overruns looks anny day.
2006-08-19 10:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by Andria D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you should ask yourself is, whats more important to you, love from the popular crowd, or love from the person that may deeply love you?
What ever you choose, I hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-19 10:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋