OK!!! last week i asked if it pathetic to go to a bar alone!!! thnx for all ur answers....no i wanna know...?

Question

if i am there alone and someone approaches me.....what do i say when they ask y i am alone??? i just think ppl will think i am a loser who has no friends!!!! i am NOT!!! i am so outgoing and i just wanna go have FUN...HELP

Answer 1

well... first off there is no shame in saying your alone.. it does not make you a loser!!!!!!!/.. but if you rather not state that all you have to do is fudge a bit... and say... my friend was suppose to meet me , but hes late---- or he called and said he couldn't make it... etc... or my friend just left... etc... use your imagination, and best wishes !

Answer 2

If you live in Michigan then email me and we will go together. Otherwise you will project how you feel.If you feel like a loser then they will think of you as one. Go in there confident and tell them I'm alone and I just got off work or whatever you just got done doing and say I decided I wanted a drink. Thats what men do.. So why should you feel any different. Go for it.Just never leave with any of them and if your there late have someone that works there walk you to your car. Have fun.

Answer 3

I used to go out alone all the time. I made it a point to tell guys who would ask that I was there to have fun and my motto is " I came here alone I'm going home alone". Let them know that you are willing to have fun but nothing else. It always worked out well for me.

Answer 4

Don't be so paranoid!! If they ask - and they aren't perverted, just tell them YES. Don't you know they will be happy that you are alone? If you are with somebody, they may think they don't have a chance to make a new friend.

You don't have to tell them how popular you are, or how many friends you have, or that you have a fan club, but you just wanted to be alone...

Just be you and have a good time. Nobody likes a bragger.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Never say that you are alone - always say that you have friends there. you never know who you are talking to

Answer 7

i go out alone all the time

Answer 8

Say yes and add my buddies are all busy and I felt bored sitting at home.

Answer 9

Why would you bother what people say?! Does it really matter??!!! And NNNNooooo nobody will think you are a loser They are DRUNK!!! And we all friends when we drunk!!!!

Answer 10

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