Okay...been dating this woman for about 3 months now and we've just began to get intimate. Sex is very uncomfortable for her she says. Its gotten to the point where she only wants to do oral. I can't help what the good Lord has blessed me with, but I really like this woman and I dont want give her up. We've talked about it at length and she pretty much feels the same way. But I cant chop any of it off. What r some alternatives?
2006-08-19 09:11:56 · 17 answers · asked by bigsexy2896 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
having sex on your sides or spooning can help.She will get used to it.Sex is not supposed to hurt or be that uncomfortable,she should see her doctor.Unless you are morbidly deformed,then you are SOL!!!!
2006-08-19 09:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by ~Misty.babydoll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a bit explicit, but here you go. You have to warm her up really good before sex. Use your fingers adding more and more as she gets more and more wet. When it is time for the action be conscious of how hard you are going, take it slow and easy and dont try to put it all the way in her. There are other things like really good positions you can try, pick up a karma sutra book, missionary may not be the best if you are really large, but the key is to make sure that she is really lubricated and that she becomes used to your size. It will work out.
2006-08-19 16:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me the more you have innercourse the more use to it she will become. I would DEF. take it easy on her and move VERY slowly. It should all fix itself in time. If not I would take her to see her GYN and maybe they can help. Good luck and have fun!!!
2006-08-19 16:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....first a woman can fit a 10 pound baby through that opening so your penis should be no problem. the vagina stretches.
you just nee to get her turned on more before you try to insert it.
2006-08-19 16:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try using tons of lube ! That helps me.
2006-08-19 16:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should go to a doctor, you should make sure she is ready, and you both should use lots of lube.
2006-08-19 16:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral is cool, as long as you get a nut off what's the problem?
2006-08-19 16:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by chetahbill 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're already doing the alternative. If sex is all you want, you may have to move on.
2006-08-19 16:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Lubrication and the way it sounds ALOT of it ;)
Oh yeah and LOTS of foreplay
2006-08-19 16:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by HiKo73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if u want oral i wont gave 2 u till u have sex wd me
2006-08-19 16:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋