My partner & I broke up 6 months ago. We were always arguing, so she moved out. We had been together for 3 years. Now she wants to get back together, but she said everytime she gets around me that her stomach knots up & she get sick to her stomach. What do you do to correct this and why does she feel like this? You can't get back together if she feels like this. She said she still loves me.
2006-08-19 09:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't take her back if I was you. What is over leave it that way and move on with your life. I've been in the same situation before and let me tell you if your heart isn't fully in it ...then show her the door and don't ever let her come back. In time your life will be a great deal better without her and maybe with somebody else that don't have what she is feeling. Take care and good luck.
2006-08-19 09:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your partner were together for 3 years then she probably does love you. The question should be if she is "in love" with you. There is a big difference. If the two of your argued alot when you were together then her "knots" could be from the fear of getting into another argument. There is always going to be dis-agreements in a relationship but if you argued all of the time then I would suggest that you two remain good friends with no strings attached. If the two of you want to try to give the relationship another shot, then you need to find the true reason for all of the arguments. Your relationship will not work unless you both try 100%. True love is not 50-50.
2006-08-19 16:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you something, she does not love you the way you want and she may never love you the way you want. I would let her go NOW. If a woman really loves you she will love, respect, except you for you. Why does she want to get back together, to put the stake threw your heart. You can not correct it, be real, it is telling you and her to forget it. No love on her part. Think about it, you deserve better than second best... She still has the same problems she had before she left and has not learned anything about her changing who she is.. Zella
2006-08-19 16:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you guys probily ahd alot of struggles together, she get knot because she doesn't really know ifthat where she want to be, but at the same time nothing else makes her feel the way you make her feel. ( its kind like placment for displacment if you understand what i mean), so try tihs, try to start fresh with her and do thing different even tho you guys know each other inside and out, make her feel different about you or how thing were.
bring a different aspect ot her and don't be scared to try new things that intrest her. that only way to break her bad vibes and knots is to tell each other everything you two did when yall were together, even if it means things that where secrect and she might feel better about everything.
2006-08-19 16:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by skott p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she still love you it sounds like she is repulsed by you enough to throw up!!Time to keep moving ...find some on ewho loves you and thinks you are perfect enough to eat up!! Nibble Nibble!!!
2006-08-19 16:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋