My sister got engaged and her fiancee cheats on her behind her back what should I do? She won't beleive me.
2006-08-19 09:05:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-19 09:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure you can back your claim. It'd be much worse if you confront your sister without solid proof. In the end it might turn out that the girl is a close relative. A picture or catching him in the act with your sister would be a good way to prove to your sister that you are right.
2006-08-19 09:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by curious cats. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and stay out of it, since you know that your sister does not want to hear about her fiancee, try and keep the lines of commucations open with your sister, so she can always come to you, but I would say only once to her fiancee, in front of your sister, do not hurt my sister. Sooner or later she will find out.
2006-08-19 09:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine why a woman would be engaged to someone like that; I do know someone who married a guy that had been brutal to her (she loved him). I also cannot understand why she wouldn't believe you, her own sister.
I think the only thing you can do, aside from trying to reveal the guy for the jerk he is, is continue to love and be there for your sister and pray for her. I hope she will come to know the truth before it is too late.
2006-08-19 09:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him up, arrange a stripper to act like she wants him and take your sister out for coffee in the exact same spot.
2006-08-19 09:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by choochi80221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn and you live and then you move on. Tell her once tell her twice then leave her alone if she doesn't follow your advice
Wait get proof and show her. Marriage is a LIFE LONG desicion ans it cost alot of money and pain and time to get divorced. Show her proof you may just save her life girl!!
2006-08-19 09:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only way she will believe you is if she sees it for herself. If you no where they go, either take a camera or bring your sister there. Good luck
2006-08-19 09:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she won't believe you...then, tell your mom or something..if you have anyother siblings tell them to convince her or talk to the fiancee's parents and ask them politely about it...and um...if nothing works then that's not your fault...your sister is just in denial
2006-08-19 09:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you tell her that he's no good, the more she'll stay with him - to spite you. You tried, now it's time to stay out of it, and hope that she sees him for what he is - before it's too late.
2006-08-19 09:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, dont you think is a kind of too late?
either, tell your mum, or spent that amt of money to get a private investigator...
dont feel the pinch for that money, is worthed it esp to your own sister...
2006-08-19 09:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋