Family & Relationships - 18 August 2006

and i can't even sleep at night thinkin' 'bout her and my situation. i think that i really fell in love with her and i dont think i can do it on my own.could please someone respond with my problem?..right now i feel that im nothing,im stupid,and i felt so bad for my self. i really like that girl and i dont think i can survive a day knowing that shes on someonelse's arms.i cant even imagine her with other guys.i cant accept those.maybe you think that im selfish but i dont know what to do with this.maybe somehow you can understand my feelings, specially to those guys who have a same situation like me. and one more thing not being to confident with my self but im not ugly, someone says that im cute,just kidding, i just wanna make you laugh. so thats it!. im hoping that you could help me. thanks for reading this

2006-08-18 01:48:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have moved all of my things back to my place, but I am still staying the night with him. I enjoy being with him so much, but I don't feel right about living with him. I feel anxious much of the time and have a sense of guilt. He tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me. How can I find peace in this situation?

2006-08-18 01:47:43 · 22 answers · asked by gofigure 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question yesterday. I know there are girls/women out there that have peed in a pool or get out of it and just peed in their yard. A wet suit is a pain and so isn't going into a cold air conditioned house. Let's get some honest replies.

2006-08-18 01:46:40 · 11 answers · asked by justcurious 1 in Family

When i was sick and alone, my friend sent sms saying: It will be fine, we are superwomen, you'll survived the cold..

Other time, when i was so sad, i was saying that i prefer to be a dumb but so-damn-pretty girl, she said to me: I always pray that if i have pretty-but-dumb-girl-friend, i'll always be there to take care of her...

So.. what about you??

2006-08-18 01:45:56 · 16 answers · asked by dayBYday 2 in Friends

I split up from a long term relationship about 4 weeks ago, and met this guy who goes to the same gym as me. I saw him in town we got chatting, i ended up sleeping with him. But after that he wouldn't leave me alone he was cooking for me, texting me saying he missed me, ringing me, inviting me round to his house all the time, he kept telling me how beautiful i was.

I invited him 2 this party and he said he would go then he let me down an hour before. So i went on my own the next day he didnt his phone until 10pm then he came 2 see me sayin he was sorry.

I then saw him the next night n he was a bit distant. So i dint ring him the nxt day until late to gi him some space.

The day after i rang him and he said he needed to talk. So i went round to see him and he said he wasn't ready for all of this and he didnt want to see me.

My friends had warned that he's bad news, but now i feel attached to him. Has he been playing me?

I dont understand how he could change so easily!

2006-08-18 01:45:03 · 35 answers · asked by Stace 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not sure what to do. My 8-year-old sister is absolutely insane and the most difficult child that ever existed that doesn't qualify to go under mediciation for you know... being crazy. Her difficulties basically started as young as when she was three, in grade 1 she was supended like 10 times from school, the doctor says she -might- get better, but she seems to just get worse. I think though, that she's not just crazy, but really spoiled too. She throws horrible tantrums and we live in an apt. building, our neighbours have knocked on our doors and walls, and quite frankly I am embarrassed to go out. She just doesn't seem to care or understand. Sometimes I can't help but wish her voicebox would somehow disappear and she'd stop hitting and being so abusive and disgusting...

2006-08-18 01:44:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i think i should know because i am over 20 but i dont, so there we r.

i wanna no cos my bf wants 2 have sex with me but i do not know wot it is so i say maybe, not wanting 2 look stupid 4 not noin wot it is. i dont no u lot, so dont feel embarrased 2 ask. PLZ HELP ME!!!!

2006-08-18 01:43:58 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 01:43:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it child abuse?

2006-08-18 01:43:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I split up from a long term relationship about 4 weeks ago, and met this guy who goes to the same gym as me. I saw him in town we got chatting, i ended up sleeping with him. But after that he wouldn't leave me alone he was cooking for me, texting me saying he missed me, ringing me, inviting me round to his house all the time, he kept telling me how beautiful i was.

I invited him 2 this party and he said he would go then he let me down an hour before. So i went on my own the next day he didnt his phone until 10pm then he came 2 see me sayin he was sorry.

I then saw him the next night n he was a bit distant. So i dint ring him the nxt day until late to gi him some space.

The day after i rang him and he said he needed to talk. So i went round to see him and he said he wasn't ready for all of this and he didnt want to see me.

My friends had warned that he's bad news, but now i feel attached to him. Has he been playing me?

I dont understand how he could change so easily!

2006-08-18 01:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by Stace 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 01:42:17 · 1 answers · asked by Sweepy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to try to be fair and take turns paying when i was dating my ex (not exactly back and forth but if he payed a couple of times then i would make sure i payed next...i tried to make it as even as possible) but eventually it turned into an issue when sometimes i didnt have money. he never said anything but he sometimes acted annoyed or sometimes we would go somewhere and he would flat out ask me to pay.
i know for a fact that with his past girlfriends he payed for everything and it wasnt an issue at all. this isnt the reason we broke up, but i was just wondering what you think his problem was? and a second question...how often do you guys expect a girl or your gf to pay?

2006-08-18 01:41:41 · 29 answers · asked by sandraevans31 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a long history together, almost 10 years. I used to have feelings for her in the past, but it didn't work out & she got married to someone else. She got divorced a year ago and we've been in touch for the last 6 months. She is a very good friend of mine & we can talk for hours non-stop and she seems to enjoy it. I grew new feelings for her, but a much mature ones than before. I made hints about being together but I don't think it's enough, so I figured to stop wasting time and express how I feel.

2006-08-18 01:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by Archi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-18 01:40:58 · 24 answers · asked by staggermanme 1 in Singles & Dating

Now this question has probably been asked plenty of times and judging by the answers of most people more than half of these people are basing their answers off of what they've seen from the movies and have never picked up a comic book in their life. Personally, I'm putting my money on Batman. Sure Spider-Man's a cool character, probably one of my favorites, but Batman is the only character in the DCU that could take down any member of the JLA (That's Justice League for you non-comic readers, just think of the cartoon!) if they ever got out of line. Including Superman! He would study Spider-Man as they fought and learn what he can about his powers and learn how to counter them. So if someone actually took the time to read this, I'd like to hear your answers. Who'd win a fight if Batman and Spider-Man ever fought?

2006-08-18 01:40:37 · 11 answers · asked by andre' w 2 in Friends

Ah, the tired cliche, but isn't it a bit insulting that you just want us guys to be walking punchlines so you can have a giggle? Or is it so that we can laugh off infedility?

I mean a guy could be the most attentive, caring affectionate, handsome guy out that, but does he still fall down if his only joke is one about a chicken crossing the road?

2006-08-18 01:39:40 · 22 answers · asked by Nature_Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been single for 4 years now and i've only started dating again about a month ago. I'm 25 but im always nervous on a date and can never seem to get into the flow of thing. Please help in giving me some tips. Things you look for and find comfi ect.. Thanks guys, much appreciated!!!

2006-08-18 01:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by naturegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a bit of stupid question, but for me, it's the hardest thing in the world. I've just got into my first serious relationship and I'm a month through (I'm aged 18). The thought of telling my mom I have a girlfriend makes me "cringe". I'm pretty close to my mom, and she's quite young, but just actually telling her would be the height of embrassasment on my part. I don't know why. We can talk about anything, but I've never really had to talk about this stuff before. I'm not the shy kind, I'm quite outgoing and passionate, and that's why I don't know what is bugging me so much about revealing it. I'm pretty sure she knows anyway (and when's she's asked me "do you have a girlfriend?", I always say "no"). I really want to just get it out in the air but I actually just can't bring myself to do it.

I can talk to my girlfriend's parents fine, but I know I have to tell my mom because otherwise I won't invite my girlfriend over unless my mom's out.

It's so strange. Any suggestions?

2006-08-18 01:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i started working this summer and when school started mon the 14th, i realized that i couldn't handle school, my extra curriculars and work so i gave them my two week notice. my father wanted me to quit Debate bc it took up too much of my time. when i told him i was thinking about joining FCCLA he thought it was a good idea. he is now telling me that i must work and to find a way around my schedule. Is that legal?

2006-08-18 01:38:59 · 26 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family

Me and this girl have been best friends for ages. We have traveled the world to see eachother and always have a great time together. We go to the movies. We do everything together. Her Parents love me. I have made every effort known to hummanity. If we were older I would ask her to marry me!! Let me add that we r both 18. I want to be able to support her before I decide to marry her She has had several crushes and the occasional bf but none last. I love her more than anything in the world but she doesn't seem to notice. She says she loves me as a brother but I cant live with that. When I'm with her there is nothing more wonderful. I rather endure anythng then have her suffer 4 1 sc. Im tired of being the friend. I make her laugh, smile, cry etc... but she never lets me in her heart. This girl is the joy of my life but to her i am only a "friend". I've tried telling her but to no avail. Am i selfish to want more? What can i do? Am i being used? Any advice would help.

2006-08-18 01:37:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 01:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my boss talks openly with me about her personal life in detail like this one time when she commented on not needing a sex toy because if she needed something extra her husband would just fist her. should she be telling me this? her employees are alot younger than she is and sometimes i feel like she tries to fit in with the young crowd where do you draw the line of communication between boss and employee?

2006-08-18 01:35:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

first i went out w/ this girl ad then she broke up wimme and i was pretty hurt so i started looking for some1 esle and i found her.. her best friend and junst wen i got to liking her best friend a lot she wants to go back out wimme but i like em both lots wat should i do here plz hlp

2006-08-18 01:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by nutman42240 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 01:33:56 · 29 answers · asked by realquietcool 2 in Family

2006-08-18 01:33:32 · 26 answers · asked by crusader 1 in Singles & Dating

Look at my Avatar all dressed up and no where to go. Where are you all going out Saturday night (especially in Manchester)? I might wear my police hat and come join you!

2006-08-18 01:32:36 · 17 answers · asked by Easy Rider 2 in Singles & Dating

What's for dinner? Better yet, what isn't for dinner?

2006-08-18 01:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by slikk pikka 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 01:31:39 · 20 answers · asked by shapeshifter_phoenix 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-18 01:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is in his 40's likes computers (games), football, and digital photography. I normally get him a voucher from GAME but would like to be a little more creative I want to spend up to £30.00 max.

Thanks you lovelly answerers!

2006-08-18 01:31:09 · 14 answers · asked by CHARLOTTE B 3 in Family