I've been single for 4 years now and i've only started dating again about a month ago. I'm 25 but im always nervous on a date and can never seem to get into the flow of thing. Please help in giving me some tips. Things you look for and find comfi ect.. Thanks guys, much appreciated!!!
2006-08-18 01:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by naturegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel-believe me. Sometimes its difficult to get into the flow of things, but what you can always do is try to feel out what kind of guy they are Some guys talk about themselves, some guys hate to talk about themselves, some guys dont want to hear about feminine topics (shopping, what kind of food you like)....but i am getting ahead of myself.
Keep it simple right? People are interested in people that are interested in them. Ask good questions, and for god sakes try to laugh even when its not funny.
IF this doesn't work, save yourself the headache and find another guy.Hope this makes sense.
2006-08-18 01:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by lucky_777sevens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress nice for the first date but do not over do it. I like a woman that is not hung up on herself. You need to talk to the other person about what he likes and try to get to know him.Find out what type of person he is by asking him about the places he has been,what type of work he does,what his goals are in life,what he does for hobbies,music he likes and things like this.Take your time not to rush into things.never bring up past relationships unless he asks and then just give the simple,short side of the story.Just show that you are interested in him
2006-08-18 08:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I would say that a great date is when you can be yourself and have a great conversation. Guys ususally hate to talk so you have to get them to talk about themselves and make them feel comfortable. Do something fun on your first date. Even if you don't like the guy, you'll probably have a great time.
2006-08-18 08:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect, total self representation, and all will flow.
2006-08-18 09:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by chipsy3plus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me its the womans personality that i look for.
2006-08-18 09:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the place you go to...what you talk about..
2006-08-18 08:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by cuzzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋