Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

From deep inside come a hunger I can't feed
an aching need, a desire
certain fire. I can bearly breath
that yearn that ache that desperate need
leaves me here
desolate and bare
crying unseen tears

there lies a pain in my heart, a pain in my soul
ans this pain I can't control

flashbacks; stolen moments, glimpses of erotic dreams
aren;t enough to hold the seams of what its
together
nor is love's golden thread enough when the fabric it holds
spans the waist of a woman whose thighs together are 18 hours
switching left to right
from western to eastern cultures divide her step
increase my pain

slowly the tears, slowly the light
maybe it isn't worth the fight

Lies and love affairs
the two reasons
I want you
hear


--- any suggestions for the title? if you need me to explain apart of it before you can come up with something let me know. Thank you. ---

2006-08-15 16:37:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i know this guy who is a year younger than me but I am afraid to tell him, what is the best way??

2006-08-15 16:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do women hold on to grudges for so long? If a man decides not to continue to date them any longer, some women make their number 1 goal to make you unhappy with whoever you date next. WTF is their problem?

2006-08-15 16:35:30 · 17 answers · asked by willno74 3 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for a year and broke it off with him twice, once was becuase i was still dealing with an ex and just recently i did becuase he is in another country finishing his school and i feel liek when he comes back we are goign to be different people, he will be back in november and will still want to be with me, he sends me emails telling me how much he loves me and wants to have a family one day. hes a great and honest guy and i knwo there hard to come by, should i get back with him when he comes home for those reasons or does it sound like were not meant to be together? please help me i have 4 months left before i have to make a desicion, i dont want to lose a great guy but i dont want to stay with him for reasons other than love becuase i dont think i love him but i can see me have a family with him. make sence?

2006-08-15 16:34:50 · 15 answers · asked by beauty talks 1 in Singles & Dating

You may remember that Ignasus Uno-Squatski is a Lativan student majoring in Zen and higher math who came to live with me after the roomie who thought he was Ramses II was killed by a truck during a rainstorm he thought was the startup of a plague of frogs.

Well, Iggie SOMEHOW succeeded in merging math and Zin to get up this blue glow in the shower stall and vanished into it two weeks ago!

I've been pushing the fruit-jars of borsch his mother sends him into the glow so he will have something to eat and--OK!--I was cool to pushing in his motorcycle and 50 gallons of gas.

He shoves back notes to keep me updated on life "over there/in there/whatever" and it seems that he is on a New Stone Age planet and is worshipped as a god. The problem is that the witch doctors are jealous and have raised an army to do bad things to him.

HE NOW WANTS A GATLING GUN, 50,000 ROUNDS AND FIVE CASES OF GRENADES!

This is gotten out of hand but he wrote he likes the chicks there!

WHAT TO DO

2006-08-15 16:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 16:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by Tastee 1 in Friends

I just want to know. No hidden meanings!

2006-08-15 16:31:27 · 27 answers · asked by Brandon 4 in Singles & Dating

Also, if the relationship is more of a long-distance one (meaning they see each other at least once a week but cannot so easily meet up often), how can the girl keep the guy reassured of her feelings for him? What little things can she do, for example, other than phonecalls, to keep the communication strong and the relationship strong?

2006-08-15 16:30:49 · 16 answers · asked by DancingDiva78 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:29:17 · 13 answers · asked by ruby 4 in Singles & Dating

ok i am 32 and divorced, and i have a 2 year old daughter and a 6 year old son that i have joint custody with, my question is are kids chick magnets? i dont mean to sound shallow but its just a question, should i take them when i go to the grocery store and other places? i dont have alot of options. i am just curious!

2006-08-15 16:28:18 · 20 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:28:12 · 6 answers · asked by bdogparty 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 9 months. my husband wants all the things his way. he decides what i wear, he decides how we docorate the house. he is even making what career i should choose. i am almost in depression. dont answer me to leave him. i am in diffrent country and totally dependent on him. i need some advice/tips or websites to follow some descipline to make him listen to me. thanks for your help.

2006-08-15 16:27:24 · 36 answers · asked by zica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a girl that I really like. At one of our high school dances, she asked me to dance and I think that (I don't quite remember though) I might have, in panic, have said no. Luckily she just said, "yea, you do" and dragged me onto the dance floor. I'm afraid that after that she assumed I'm not interested in her and has moved on. How do I try to fix this problem? What do I do?

2006-08-15 16:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Singles & Dating

i am truely in love but I feel like I wasnt cut out for this. i am a christian and do not beleive in divorce, unless absolutly nessasry. I feel like a failure. i would be absolutly misserable with out him.

2006-08-15 16:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by sillyone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

become mature and actually start dating us nice guys???

2006-08-15 16:25:47 · 36 answers · asked by Kuraimizu 3 in Singles & Dating

I have come so close to breaking if off w/him but can't stick w/it. I've found out over a year ago that he was calling another girl every day, several times a day and at night after he'd leave me. He was seen w/another girl at a bar, and made light of it to me. He's quite controlling, wanting to know where I'm at and why it takes me so long to do things. We are both divorced, but he has alot of baggage with his two kids, ages 14 and 16, especially the 16 yr old girl. She's very manipulating. Now she claims that she doesn't want to be around me. I've come so close to ending this relationship in my mind, and have told him how I'm feeling, but he turns everything around to make it seem like it's my fault. I get confused and think that maybe it is. We will have a fight and then the next day he calls and is very nice to me, and then the cycle starts all over again. How do I stay mad and end it and not look backwards all the time??

2006-08-15 16:25:21 · 5 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 16:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by Miss k 2 in Singles & Dating

i love this guy. he teases me a lot and i tease him back and he smiles and i feel like his little sister. how do i show him im interested and good enough

2006-08-15 16:24:32 · 4 answers · asked by serena b 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I met online..but eventually I met him and everything and he is like the BEST boyfriend! But anyway we were soooo in love and I NEVER thought of breaking up with him! But then one day someone was on a chat room acting like me and broke up with him! He said he was heart broken! He was also going out with another girl when I thought he was cheating on me but it was all just a big misunderstanding! So he dumped the other girl and went back out with me. Its been a few weeks now and I feel as if we are drifting apart...and FAST! I barely talk to him now..and I feel sad. I am still in luv with him because to me he is the most perfect man! Well girls I need your help on what I should do and guys can you pleaseeee try to help me out on what my b/f is thinking, and what I should do also!?!?

2006-08-15 16:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been dating for 2 years and he has never had a job (he's 23). He withdrew or failed most of his classes at school and he plays games all day or occasionally wants fast food or to go to a restaurant.

His parents give him an endless amount of cash and it adds to his problem. I told him late last year that if he doesn't do something w/his life then we are over.

He does let me use his car (I hate buying gas) and loans me $ sometimes-although at one point he didn't pay me for his share of the bills for 2-3 months. He pays for my food and gas. What should I do?

2006-08-15 16:23:48 · 22 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone told me this, and I dont know how in the world it would relax me.

2006-08-15 16:22:42 · 31 answers · asked by xxxxxxx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 16:22:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:22:04 · 4 answers · asked by liltexas36 3 in Friends

2006-08-15 16:21:44 · 15 answers · asked by Trevor 7 in Family

2006-08-15 16:21:02 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn s 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been going out for a little over seven months. I love being with her. I love her, but I don't know how I should react now that she's told me that she's bi-sexual. It makes me a bit uncomfortable. I don't want to loose what we have. How should I handle this?

2006-08-15 16:20:41 · 30 answers · asked by bill 1 in Singles & Dating

So besides the obvious, is there anything else guys like to have sucked?

2006-08-15 16:20:23 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I love America and I wish one day to visit it, but I dont know why I love thjat much?? why do you thin?

2006-08-15 16:18:52 · 15 answers · asked by shez_not_breathing 2 in Friends

2006-08-15 16:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

MY STORY:
Last year, I met my gf. At 1st, she loved me A LOT! I love her also but not as much as she did. Later, our relationship died down. Our role switched. I became the one who love and miss her more. And I started asking all those stupid questions 'why this' and 'why that'.
On this March, we almost broke up but I managed to safe it. Once awhile she still wanted to break up. Things dragging for couple months until now. She broke up with me 3 weeks ago(I can feel this time is the REAL one). At first, I tried to be cool even not seeing her . She still sent me a box of food I like to eat to my house. I think she wants to hint keeping me as her friend. Atm, If I send a mini-gift back to her. Things will be all rite. And I will end the relationship nicely. At least, we will still be friends. BUT ....

2006-08-15 16:16:51 · 27 answers · asked by City hunter 3 in Singles & Dating