Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. We’ve known each other forever, and have gone through many ups and downs together, including long distance and family crises. Now with both of us working, he is spending a lot of our special time (Fri/weekends/public holidays) with friends drinking, travelling and chalets. I’m usually quite open to him meeting friends, but the meet-ups are always organised by him, always happens during our unspoken special, and will go ahead even when I fall sick and would like him to be with me. At the same time, we’re starting to move in really different circles because I’ve started becoming more involved in my interests and making new friends through newfound interests. We haven’t been having proper conversations for 2 weeks now, and I keep on feeling that this relationship is going to end. Yet at the same time, he’s like family to me and somehow he’ll always be so special, because 7 years is a long time and even as friends there’ll always be so many memories. There is also this curiosity of what happens if I am single again – I’ve been in a relationship since I was 19! I wonder how it would feel to be out of such a commitment and be able to see relationships with a new adult eye. Am I just using the meet-up with friends as excuses to end the relationship, or is it really the end of it all.

2006-08-15 16:51:54 · 7 answers · asked by Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend for ovr 3 months. but unofficialliy we've been talking for over a year and a half. i think the relationship is serious but i think he sees it as a brand new relationship. is it alright if i ask him where its going? future plans? marriage?

2006-08-15 16:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For me its when I'm lying on my bed, with my hair in a sexy fashion, pulling down on my shirt, with booty shorts showin off some of my @$$....you?

2006-08-15 16:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by Rosy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:51:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean, I'm Asian-American and there's really no hope for asians, is that true? I'm not that overall bad looking because I consider myself pretty good looking with a nice personality. Maybe something's missing? Pessimism? Lack of confidence of acquiring a white girl?

I don't know why white girls appeal to me, I guess I like them a lot.

Any suggestions?

2006-08-15 16:50:41 · 33 answers · asked by krazych1nky 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanted to post this question again because only 2 people wanted to be nice and answer. I really am just curious.

I don't mean to sound perverted--this is truly something I am just curious about because no one ever talks about it.

I am curious about where woman masturbate. What position they are in. What they use. How they do it. I know all people are diferent, so there will probably be a lot of different answers.

This is just something I have wondered about.

Also--how long does it take you? And where do you do it?

And how often do you do it? Like how many times a day or a week?

2006-08-15 16:49:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

only orders chips and salsa for both of us instead of us having one of the menu entries.

2006-08-15 16:49:41 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:49:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's satisfied one time at night one time in the morning

2006-08-15 16:49:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the BEST sexual experience you have ever had?

2006-08-15 16:47:23 · 27 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Singles & Dating

any ideas how to keep the head from being able to mave back and forth?

2006-08-15 16:47:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey.. is there anyone with Hotmail ID to chat with me? am lonely.

2006-08-15 16:47:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Let's say you are a woman who is over 30, or even 25. Is it true that you only CONSIDER dating a guy who is rich and handsome? If he is average-looking or ugly who works hard but doesn't make a lot of money, you would consider him a total loser. Is it rue that women only look out for men who are hot and rich, then they go out with them to see if they have the other important qualities, like sense of humor, ect? Please spare me the BS about inner beauty, because women always say that, BUT they will never consider a guy like me who has a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck, balding, out of shape and hair all over my body, no matter how much "inner beauty" I have.

2006-08-15 16:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

talk anyone

2006-08-15 16:46:07 · 3 answers · asked by jessie 3 in Friends

If you suspect a woman has low self esteem, should you avoid them because of the chance that they are emotional wrecks?

2006-08-15 16:46:06 · 8 answers · asked by willno74 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:45:30 · 8 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be interesting about beginning life as an old person and growing younger? What do you think it would be like to begin life this way?

2006-08-15 16:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-15 16:44:33 · 20 answers · asked by pretty in orange 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this normal to wanna experiance the sexual side of a woman.

2006-08-15 16:44:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my yahoo messnager is marquitalovesu@yahoo.com

2006-08-15 16:43:35 · 4 answers · asked by marquitalovesu 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex about a month ago. He tried to get me back for a while, and then he stopped. He's a player, he messes around with a lot of girls, and he's had a lot of girlfriends (although that's not too relevant...) anyway, he commented me on myspace asking how i've been. should i reply to him? or keep ignoring him?

2006-08-15 16:43:20 · 5 answers · asked by babyrooster 2 in Singles & Dating

hey all...i am starting my senior year of high school and i find myself mixed up.dont rule me out or consider this juvenile because im 18 because i am truly passionate and mean everything.alrigh,.so in fifth grade i met this girl who soon became one of my best friends as both of our parents worked at the school and we were always stuck after school together. throughout elementary and middle school we continued to grow as friends and gave new meaning to the term best friends as we were so tight...but as high school came around i started to fall for her...and to make it worse, my parents joke about it because my mother married her fifth grade teachers son so she thinks that i will marry my fifth grade teachers daughter. in my sophomore year my family and i moved out of state,crushing both my friend and i. for about a year we didnt talk very much...but, after a couple of visits our intense friendship was back! I love her so much but i dont know how to let my best friend know. thnx

2006-08-15 16:42:25 · 4 answers · asked by Seanoso88 1 in Singles & Dating

My in-laws up hold my husbands bad behavior, whe I talk to them about him they justify his behavior by saying, it's ok, he shoudl be allowed to do this or that. Example, every year he wants to throw this big party, that we really can not afford, it is the same time that school starts, and our daughter needs school cloths as well as school fees paid. He insist on having it, and there response is, oh well it is once a year, and why not. When he is not paying for basic necessities at the house like toilet paper, soap ets, they buy it for us. I think that they enable him, it is so disgusting. I have decided not to deal with them at all.

2006-08-15 16:42:21 · 3 answers · asked by Happy1 3 in Family

if a man that you had it out real bad with tells you he wants nothing to do with you because hes angry about something you did. But then he keeps staring at you when you go to work everyday do you think he is still interested or that he misses you?What are the signs that an ex really misses you but wont talk to you and you wont talk to them?

2006-08-15 16:42:17 · 3 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do we compare it to a kitty cat? :D

2006-08-15 16:42:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a really great boyfriend but he is sexually selfish and only thinks about his needs and wants. I have to beg for oral sex. I even went on strike refusing to have sex until he fulfilled my request. So last night I couldn't take it anymore. I needed to have sex after a month of being on strike.
Just as we started to get into it he tries to cut to the chase and start with the intercourse without ANY foreplay at all...again. I tried to show him by example and performed oral sex on him for a considerable amount of time and then I got like 2 minutes in return.
I have tried talking to him about it. That it makes me feel like he doesn't care about me sexually and that something is wrong with me down there. I am clean and don't smell. If I did I wouldn't let him go there even if he wanted to. But he acts like a kid that is being forced to eat his broccoli or something.
This has never been an issue with anyone else I've been with.
Serious advice only please.

2006-08-15 16:41:03 · 21 answers · asked by soinneed2006 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 16:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by Job E 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have this friend who had a crush on a guy I didn't know. One day I saw him and made her sit at his lunch table with me, which is how I met him. Soon enough, she's stopped liking him and I'd become best friends with him. I started liking him, and he knew about it for a short period of time, then stopped for a little while and told him so, but continued to afterwards without telling him. He really is my best friend- the other day when I was at camp I killed my friend's phone battery because I was on the phone with him for too long. He was saying he was bored and wanted to go up to see me. We talk on the phone and aim and hang out a lot, and we both take up half the comments on eachothers myspaces. He's told me he would find a way to stop my obsessive apologizing (another long story) and cutting by senior year, he always wants to hang out, and he used to wait for me all the time when we left lunch, but that's all probably just because ( to be continued in notes sorry it's so long!)

2006-08-15 16:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by katie 1 in Friends

My life has been turned upside down and tossed around recently ( another divorce, my God this is incredible ). I've rolled with it and now that the dust has settled a bit I find myself looking at uncharted territory and I'm amazed that I'm scared. Is this a common reaction?

2006-08-15 16:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend thinks between 5K-8K!....i think it is way too much...we could both use the money on something else (house, car, travel) that would bring us a lot more....a ring is just a symbol....does paying between 1K-2.5K for a ring makes me a cheap bastard?

2006-08-15 16:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by justacuriousguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce