What is it about asian guys that white girls don't like?

Question

I mean, I'm Asian-American and there's really no hope for asians, is that true? I'm not that overall bad looking because I consider myself pretty good looking with a nice personality. Maybe something's missing? Pessimism? Lack of confidence of acquiring a white girl?

I don't know why white girls appeal to me, I guess I like them a lot.

Any suggestions?

Well, I'm not talking about penis size.. that's just not right apparently. Racism in a way. I mean.. I'm talented in many ways as well.. I really shouldn't be thinking about it, I'm going to be a junior in high school and apparently worrying about the prom after this year.

I'm not those ordinary asian guys who're shy and hide in the corners, I'm actually an extrovert.

Yeah, it's the personality. Who cares, I'm 5'10". I should be 5'11" soon.

Darn stereotypes.

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Answer 1

I think asian guys are pretty hot.
I don't know what you're talking about.
OK, there were some white girls that I went to school with that didn't like asian guys. I didn't think to ask them why.
If no white girls find you attractive, then you need to move out here to California. The white/asian relationship is much more common here.

Answer 2

Are you kidding? Asian guys ROCK! If that's really your pic, you are totally hot, and I wish I'd met you when I was your age. (I'm fifty-something now, white and married >30 years to a terrific Asian guy)

Seriously, don't stress. There are plenty of girls of all races out there that like Asian men - or for whom race just isn't a factor. You probably hate to hear this but maybe you are just trying too hard. Relax and be friendly with the girls of all races and appearances. Hang around with girls that share your interests and appreciate your personality. The social skills and confidence you develop will pay off when you meet the girl of your dreams - and those Asian, Black, Latino and multiracial girls you befriend may be just the ones to introduce you to her.

Answer 3

Shallow people might say it's because of the small ego thing *coughs* you know down there. However its not all true i had a huge crush on this guy who was full asian, and he liked me too, we never went out, but we were really really good friends. I'm more of a personality type girl... i mean sure looks matters some what, but if the guy is truly a kindered spirit why does ne thing else matter?

Answer 4

I LIKE Asain guys (have met quite a few who I thought were HOT) a lot of the guys I dated (who were asain) were funny as all hell!!! But sorry, one I'm too old for you and two, I'm married (to the whitest white boy you've ever seen), race doesn't really matter to me, I have yet to meet a race that I would not date (IF I were single), maybe your school is just too narrow minded, wait until you get out to college or the "real world" (or whatever you plan to do after HS) and you will meet TONS of girls who would be happy to date you.

Answer 5

I don't know. I think most white women believe Asian men have small penises. I don't mean to sound ignorant, but that's the way it is.

However, here is a wesite that discusses the Asian Man/White woman Issue.

http://www.goldsea.com/Air/Issues/WFAM/wfam_20721.html

And here is one that charts average penis size by age and race.

http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm

Answer 6

Asian men tend to be somewhat good looking and educated. They are honest, caring, and loyal. Those are not the things white girls want. White girls like to be slapped around. They want to have an uneducated boyfriend of any race but asian. Dude man you got slap them around and dominate them. That's how I got under their panties.

Answer 7

I'm Asian-American and I dig white chicks. I sense your confusion. I too, feel that White girls don't like Asian boys that much but some girls do. I think it might be the stereotype that messed us up ... y'know how they say ... thin and short.

Answer 8

The only reason I haven't dated an Asian guy is because I haven't been aproached by one that I have clicked with. But the same could be said for me an blonds. Really it is about the chemestry, and for me the height.

Answer 9

Maybe its becuz asians act white like tha white, or even more than them, lol. Maybe you can try to be more flirty in one day and and more confident. That always works. And if it doesnt than you could give up I suggest you do this where no one knows you.
And sometimes its becuz their short. Hey ur still young and I know youll get a white gal in that time................ why would you even want a white girl in da first place.

Answer 10

I think most girls look for tall white guys, or, if you are shorter, you should work out so you have obvious muscles or just get into good shape. I think asians are cute. I love their V-shape bodies (broad shoulders and usually tight little butts).

Bottom line... get into shape, get a good haircut and style and be more confident.

Good luck!