My girlfriend and I have been going out for a little over seven months. I love being with her. I love her, but I don't know how I should react now that she's told me that she's bi-sexual. It makes me a bit uncomfortable. I don't want to loose what we have. How should I handle this?
2006-08-15 16:20:41 · 30 answers · asked by bill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also... I am worried that...
What if shes not really Bi and shes a lesbian whos just confused. I don't want her to leave me!
2006-08-15 16:25:23 · update #1
Well i'm bi and I have a fiance and we've been together for 4 yrs. now. And I was honest with him that i'd had a g-friend for 2 yrs. But it was a little uncomfortable at first but now it's greater than ever and we're very close and there's nothing that I wouldn't tell him. Just remember honesty is the best policy.
2006-08-16 06:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would get out as soon as possible. You're uncomfortable now, and I doubt it will get any better over time. In seven months, couldn't she have come out with the truth and told you that she's bi? Maybe she just realized it, but it's still not a good idea to stay with her. Don't tell her you're breaking up with her because she's bi, though, because that might make her lie to her future boyfriends about it. She might even be trying to get rid of you, you never know! She must know that this will make you uncomfortable. I wouldn't stick around to find out either. Good luck!
2006-08-15 16:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it dont matter whether she is bi or not as long as she is with you and it may just be a plus cause one day she may want to be with you and another girl,just dont worry about it, whatever problems you still have just talk to her about them but it shouldnt bother you, ive had a bi g/f before
2006-08-15 16:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all u shouldnt judge her for being bi-sexual. talk ur problems out and see what can happen. meaning that u can break up or keep on going w/ ur relationship and be able to share w/ other people. and u should also be supportive of what she does if u really really do love her.
2006-08-15 16:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_happy_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes you uncomfortable then walkaway. But before you walk out on her, has this affected how she reacts with you? If not then don't worry about it. If she is a faithful girlfriend she will not be messing around with other women. It would still be considered cheating.
2006-08-15 16:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her is she can maintain an exclusive relationship without being with another girl. Then tell her she's not bi while she's dating you. That is to say, she may think other girls are cute but she won't be acting on that feeling.
2006-08-15 16:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 choices:-
1) accept her for what she is and carry on. allow her to still be bi.
2) accept her for what she is and carry on. but get assurance from her that bi is no more acceptable to you.
3) tell her thats the end of the relationship
2006-08-15 16:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk her to heart with her tell her what you are feeling and why but also make sure you listen to her hear her side of it too this can be a very big turn on if its something you can both handle and keep this in mind she trusted in your love enough to be honest with you about it instead of going behind your back to sleep with woman
2006-08-15 16:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her and can deal with it, why let it bother you? if it weirds you out too much, she's not the one. if you guys can commit to an exclusive reltionship, it doesn't matter what she is, cuz she's with you. if you're worried she might pick up another guy or even a girl, then your trust issues are something else you need to focus on all together.
2006-08-15 16:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by moondancer629 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jackpot for you. Now if she meets a girl at the club, yall can get busy in a little 3 way if you know what I mean.
2006-08-15 16:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋