Why do women hold grudges...?

Question

Why do women hold on to grudges for so long? If a man decides not to continue to date them any longer, some women make their number 1 goal to make you unhappy with whoever you date next. WTF is their problem?

Romy must be one of those psycho broads I'm talking about. Romy, don't sell me short. I wasn't an "A" Hole, I was the whole "A"

Answer 1

Women (and I am one) can hold a grudge for some time. It is a manifestation of our ego being bruised, especially if a man has left a woman for another woman. However, men hold grudges too, they just don't exhibit their crushed ego's in the same way.

Besides, any person that makes it their #1 priority to make another person unhappy because of a break-up has self-worth issues anyway and are possibly still emotionally in-love with you.

And you know what they say about emotions, they area a form of energy. And energy can not be created nor destroyed, therefore, they have just exchanged one strong emotion (love) for another equally as powerful emotion (hate).....

Answer 2

Get real! A woman never forgets a single mistake have ever made. Plus they listen to other women you have known from ex-girlfriends to female friend you have known. The first rule of dating for any guy is to keep the past in the past. That means NEVER talk about old relationship no matter how cool she said she is with it. That includes any that you run in to when you’re together. The second rule is never telling her you don’t like the way she dose anything from clothing to kissing. Cooking is the only thing you can you do not like but be gentle because they remember everything.

Answer 3

Women tend to take things more seriously than guys and we`re usually a lot more observent. For example we might notice something about a guy on a date that a man would NEVER even notice. That basically means the little things you don`t think you notice we do and sometimes something she expected you to notice you don`t and she can be really insulted. The observant thing is sometimes really bad, because it makes it easier for you guys to piss us off.

Answer 4

Not all woman are like that. Just the stupid insecure ones. I think that is so immature to bother an ex and his current girlfriend. The ex must like lowering herself and they have no morals. Those type of woman need to get a life.

Answer 5

You were probably an asshole to her, and probably dumped her the asshole way, by telling her over the phone, or getting someone else to do it for you, or maybe you didnt even do that, maybe you just started going out with someone else without telling her, or why. However woman can be mean, cruel and vandictive when they want to be.... so men WATCH OUT!! hahaha

Answer 6

women hold grudges becouse you odviosly hurt them bad. I dont hold grudges but i do remember things. but more then likely there is a good reason.

Answer 7

It's simple....it is because we are who we are. We have been trained to do this our whole lives......and our mothers before us, and their mothers before them, and so on.

We're good at. Masters, in fact.

We remember every thing a man has ever done wrong...ammunition.

And if a man does do us us wrong.....God help him.

Women don't have the problem.....men do.....US.

*grins*

Answer 8

most women are mean and cruel when it comes to a break up but that is just how they are cause when a man breaks up with them they want revenge but the ones that are smart just learn that it wouldnt work out anyway and to just let the dude go but most women are ruthless cause of the pain that they are feeling

Answer 9

True, that is why we women don't want a date right away. Cool Off first

Answer 10

Well mister Pickle maybe you left a sour taste in their mouth and they just want to get even.