What are the little things girls can do for their guy to remind them they're still the one she thinks about?

Question

Also, if the relationship is more of a long-distance one (meaning they see each other at least once a week but cannot so easily meet up often), how can the girl keep the guy reassured of her feelings for him? What little things can she do, for example, other than phonecalls, to keep the communication strong and the relationship strong?

Answer 1

Make him up a little gift bag of his favorite things. I did this with a b/f once just to show him I was thinking of him. They used to sell them in the flower dept. of Kroger here. I got one that a diet coke, candy bar, and some of his favorite things in it and took it to his work and left. He called me and was really happy with it.

Answer 2

The six months before my current 18 plus year marriage, my then fiancee took an out of town job. We talked on the phone, but I found letters were really the way to connect. Today I would probably use email. I would write about my day, but I would discuss things that we had done together and funny things that had happened. I used the letters to carefully express my feelings. The great thing about writing is you can proof read and make sure you say exactly what you want, unlike talking on the phone.

Answer 3

WELL, I AM IN THE ARMY AND ALOT OF THE TIME IS SPENT IN THE FIELD TRAINING OR DEPLOYED. MY GIRL SNEAKS THINGS IN MY POCKETS, LIKE LOVE LETTERS, OR SEND ME I LOVE YOU CARDS IN THE MAIL FOR NO REASON. WHEN WE USED TO SEE EACH OTHER MAYBE ONCE A MONTH WHILE I WAS TRAINING, SHE WOULD PUT ROSE PEDALS IN A BAGGIE FOR THE AMOUNT OF DAYS I WOULD BE GONE TO SHOW HOW SHE MISSED ME. THEN, NUDE PICS AREN'T A BAD IDEA, BUT JUST A LITTLE EXTEME. BASICALLY, THE EASIEST THING THAT YOU CAN DO TO REASSURE HIM IS, GET A 3 SUBECT NOTE BOOK, AND THROUGH THE DAYS THAT YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER, MAKE JOURNAL ENTRIES, ADDRESSED TO HIM, LETTING HIM KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MISS HIM, AND CAN'T WAIT TO SEE HIM. I HAVE BEEN DEPLOYED 6 TIMES FOR OVER A YEAR, AND NOTHING KEEPS THE HEART PUMPING LIKE A LOVE LETTER IN THE MAIL EVERYDAY, WELL AT LEAST 3 TIMES A WEEK

Answer 4

Send emails, letters or text messages. Make sure to always be available on that day once a week that you can get together. This one's a little sneaky, but if you have a roommate, maybe you can arrange for them to be alone while you're getting ready one day and make sure she tells him something like "DancingDiva talks about you all the time.."

Answer 5

send him a card once a week or if he has a computer send him an im letting him know you are thinking of him or send him an e card letting him know. also if you want him to really love you pick out some of both of your favorite music that you listen to together and download it and burn it to cd and send it to him the best ones to do would be love songs though that way when he hears them he will think of you. if he doesnt have a comp you can also send him a letter letting him know how you feel.

Answer 6

anticipations just be your self.what will be will be.love grows and you really don't haft to do anything because you are the woman,let him make the moves. he knows how you feel.some guys like their space. everybody has a formula as to the way they are and what they like and if you figure it out hes yours.let me put it like this, a woman would like a rose once a month than a whole dozen and never see the guy again.

Answer 7

Telephatic communications in a way of reaching him thru waves to remember about each other

Answer 8

I think little things, like mailing a card you made yourself is always nice.

Tell him that he is the only one for you. He should be able to trust that. send him flowers? send him a cookie boquet. send him an online card saying you are just thinking of him.

I hope that helps.

Answer 9

Send letters in the mail.

Answer 10

Only a man can keep a woman in his mind. You can't "make" anybody think or do anything -- you wouldn't want that done to you, right?