Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

My husband and I have been married for 1 year. We have a 2 year old which we had before we were married. I have gained weight since my pregnancy and I have had a problem getting it off. It seems like he doesn't care anymore. We are in counseling which we just started. My husband wants more "family time", but everytime I try he is either too tired from work or is just lazy. So all I do when I get home from work is clean. he does nothing to help me , but cause messes for me to clean up. so tonight i asked him to go out and go disc golfing (something that he really enjoys) as a family just the three of us. and as soon as I was going to get him after work he called and said he was going with his friend discing, No sorry or inviting me with. So now we go through the phase of not talking to eachother because he hurt me and I told him that but it all ends up being "my fault". so he won't talk to me until I talk to him first. this is our relationship all the time. is it me? does he not love me

2006-08-15 15:42:34 · 20 answers · asked by smokey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i deal with a boyfriend who would rather see his dad first then me when hes been gone for 3 months?
and we are gettin married when hes gets back from the army in november and hes gettin stationed out of state and we are moving away for 4 yrs and 6 months. am i bein to selfish?

2006-08-15 15:42:15 · 10 answers · asked by lauren b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I CAN'T FIND A GOOD SITE TO FIND WHERE SEX OFFENDERS LIVE IN MY AREA! AMY IDEAS?

2006-08-15 15:42:03 · 3 answers · asked by openminded 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

plus the ***** doesn't believe me. She says i am the only one who could have done it.

2006-08-15 15:41:44 · 17 answers · asked by Jamie L 1 in Friends

2006-08-15 15:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by fordsamjoe 1 in Family

2006-08-15 15:41:27 · 4 answers · asked by cliona 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friends mom just died and i want to buy her a book....don't know which one would help... i want it on "how to get through the times after a loved one passes away" thanks

2006-08-15 15:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 15:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by fordsamjoe 1 in Family

Have u ever made love at waterfall, beach, park, in a car, cinema or whereever shouldn't had sex??? Did u finish???

2006-08-15 15:40:08 · 14 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 15:39:07 · 5 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 15:39:06 · 1 answers · asked by HOOKIE 1 in Family

2006-08-15 15:39:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told i guy that i loved him but i dont and he said it back but he really meant it supposably thats what he said what do i do cuz i dont want 2 b with him i want 2 b single what should i do?!

2006-08-15 15:38:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would many females ever have intercourse with an asian man (rumors say that asians have small *****)

2006-08-15 15:38:49 · 16 answers · asked by aznkidd_978 1 in Singles & Dating

With all this Q & A about husbands/boyfriends looking at porn and some women being okay with it while other women are hurt by it, I'm wondering...if you found out your wife/girlfriend was hiding her porn (for the same reasons you might've hidden it from her previously/presently), would that bother you?

Also, do you guys really want to watch porn with your wife/girlfriend? Isn't that kind of a personal thing? Would it feel like 2 of your worlds are colliding and wouldn't that be uncomfortable for you?

2006-08-15 15:38:46 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should masterbation stop after a certain age

2006-08-15 15:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by travler 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not trying to offend anyone who is gay or bi, but I'm just asking those who arent. I sure dont. I mean I'm going to respect everyone no matter who they are. but those of you who are straight, what do u think about gay dating and marraige?

to be honest, it's really strange to me. i went to Canada (Vancouver) and they were all for gays. they had the gay pride flags in store windows and whatnot...

2006-08-15 15:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 15:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by greatone 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 15:37:32 · 1 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family

My friend says i am cheap because a couple times a month she calls and asks me to eat at this really fancy restaurant called sakura and it costs over $20.00 per person. I am only 14, jobless, and have to pay for my own dinners when i eat out. What do you think?

2006-08-15 15:37:23 · 18 answers · asked by brooke h 1 in Friends

pick a hair/eye/skin/etc. for a male and female to make what you think is the cutest couple

blonde hair
brown hair
black hair

blue eyes
green eyes
brown eyes

medium tan
darker tan

"American"
"Latino"
"African"
"Asian"

tall
med
short

strong build
med. build
no build

flat tooshie
round tooshie

long hair
short hair

remember pick one for female and male!

2006-08-15 15:37:20 · 2 answers · asked by hambone1985 3 in Singles & Dating

What does my age have to do with my ability to be a friend or worthy of chat? Seriously.

2006-08-15 15:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Brandon 4 in Singles & Dating

I am going into highschool next year, and god am i happy about that. Well, to bussiness. Part of going to highschool is exta-curricular activities. One of these that I am taking is marching band. The second day of marching band we were served lunch by some band parents. While eating, I sat with my sister, her friends, and two newly aquired friends of mine. Mid-way through munching on yummies a cute blonde came over and sat with us. We began to talk. I found out she was a sophomore, that she, like me, had HATED middle school. I found out the music she liked, and before long, that lunch hour was over. The rest of the day I keep looking at her, taking her in and gauging my chances. After all, she is a year older than I. Anyway, I could swear to God (Allah, hindu god... etc) that she was looking at me back. It seemed like we met eyes a few times and I was really kind of happy. Well anyway, the day ends and we leave, and as I wait for my ride, she walks out and waves at me.Does she like me?

2006-08-15 15:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I WONT TO KNOW

2006-08-15 15:36:15 · 3 answers · asked by Miracle a 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 15:36:05 · 8 answers · asked by Young Q 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 15:35:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated this guy i high school for about a year. He is a black and i'm white. My parents did not approve so we broke up. Anyway after almost 20 years of being apart we have started seeing each other again. Could we possibly end up together? He was my first and i will always have a special place for him in my heart!

2006-08-15 15:35:11 · 8 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

We just started school back and i don't want our relationship to become rocky. SO does anyone have a really good idea as for something i can do to totally surprise him?!?!

2006-08-15 15:34:53 · 21 answers · asked by contr0lx113xa0f 1 in Singles & Dating

I was a faithful, giving , loving wife for 7 yrs. I was with my husband a total of 15 yrs. He is still trying to make a house wife out of the whore that he was cheating with. I don't understand it. She doesn't respect him or give a damn about him.Yet he is still chasing her. Is it that she is more like him than I was? Maybe some men out there can give me some perspective as to how a man can throw away something so good, for someone who is not worth a penny?

2006-08-15 15:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by mari 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23, I started seeing a 20 yo about 3 weeks ago. Our first date was perfect, a walk through the woods, sitting under the stars and just getting to know each other. My daughter got hurt the very next day and he surprised us by coming by the hospital. A week later, he took us to a fair and treated me and my daughter like gold. He was, and is perfect; however, my daughter's father and I are in a custody battle and I'm having to live with my parents for a while. My father forbid my 'new guy' to call me til all this blows over and his step-father did the same to me. The problem is, I need him. He was the one person who would listen to my problems, he would give me advice when I needed it. He would call to see if I needed to talk or to see if I needed some time away for a while. I want to call him so badly but I'm afraid of upseting our families. I fear that he is too afraid to call me. I just don't know what to do. I need him now more than anything. I feel lost without him. Please Help!!

2006-08-15 15:32:57 · 34 answers · asked by Bangin To The Beat 2 in Singles & Dating