Family & Relationships - 12 August 2006

boys and girls help

2006-08-12 12:49:52 · 34 answers · asked by ''~ A.J ~'' 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband WON'T be cuddly or loving at all with me! I question whether he even loves me. My sisters and I lost our Mom when we were kids and we are very warm and cuddly with each other. I would love to lay in bed with my Baby sister and just hug her,, etc. and my husband refuses to do that. I feel so warm and cuddly in the morning and want him to baby me. Why won't he just lay with me on Saturday morning and just do that! He's always like "I don't want to sleep anymore....I'm not tired.... etc. etc. etc." I am beginning to wonder if he even cares. If he loves me as he SAYS he does, then why can't he just give me hugs and kisses?!

I ALWAYS have to ask him for hugs. He NEVER hugs me on his own. NOTE: he is foreign and Muslim - I'm Christian and grew up in the U.S. - maybe everyone was right and I was just stupid to marry him. This morning he was so mean to me when I just wanted him to lay with me and cuddle. You think if I give him the silent treatment for a while, that will work?

2006-08-12 12:49:39 · 7 answers · asked by Mishy 1 in Singles & Dating

and rightfully so. A while ago, she told some horrendous lie about my boyfriend trying to get with her a long time ago. The story was totally bogus and I started to tear myself away from her. I didn't understand why she would do such a thing. She would still try to talk, but I didnt have much to say to her.

Fast Forward to 4 months later, she called me and e-mailed me in a wreck. Her fiance was jailed and her life was falling apart. I helped her through it and we became friends again.

She is moving down here to get a job and she needs help. My boyfriend hates her and doesnt want me around her in the least. I understand where he is coming from. I was trying to be a good friend to her and we always did enjoy each others company a lot, but I dont trust her the same, but we are still cool. I still want to help her out, because I feel bad for her. What do I do?! Listen to my man and let her suffer or be nice and help out anyways.

2006-08-12 12:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i own my own home but my husband passaway so i move to the city and got me an apartment i met this lady and we had become very good friend's i had decided to move to another apartment for this one was going down real fast when my friend heard i was moveing to another apartment she offered me a room with her for 250.00 a month infact she beg me so i did time i moved into her home i found that she was nothing like the fun loveing person i figured she was she dated all men from the internet i never knew who was coming to spend the night many night i was scared to death of the strange men i found she had many personalities i really did not know who i was dealing with from one moment to the next i stayed ther for 6 month's and suddenly one day i made up my mind to move and when she found out she cussed and call me all kind's of filty name's i did not cuss her one time now after a year away from her she want's to be my friend again but it is so hard to be a friend to her i forgive what u thi

2006-08-12 12:48:46 · 3 answers · asked by mishoney 4 in Friends

who would u go out with??

2006-08-12 12:47:55 · 25 answers · asked by Abercrombie_Cutiee 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this boy and hes very hott hes tall and i really like him how can i tell he likes my too?

2006-08-12 12:47:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok why do boy care about u body?If we dont have big tit and big butt they dont even try to talk to us.Or if we dont have that but got a cute face they wan to **** .But when we like the boys we look at how they act and how look not there a** and chest.

2006-08-12 12:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Big or meddium or large breast???

2006-08-12 12:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Alyssa s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 12:46:21 · 8 answers · asked by AllsTar 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im goin to TN where my ex lives for a tennis tourny and look at property. After we broke up we were great friends and we stayed great friends when she got a new b/f who treats her like sh!t and her fam hates him and hes just an ***. Even w/a b/f i would still texting goodmorning to her almost everymorning to make her feel loved cuz her b/f doesnt. She stopped talking 2 me about 2 months ago cuz I stopped texing her in the morning so she would see what life w/o me beng there for her is like so she stopped talking to me. I know shes thinking of me cuz she deleted m eoff myspace and says how great her b/f is and how hes the best ever trying to get to me. I want to meet and talk w/her in TN and my plan is not to tell her im goin to TN but just spur of the moment and say meet me at a place and ill be there from a certain time and see if she shows up and will talk to me about what happened and why we fell apart. Is that a good idea?

2006-08-12 12:46:10 · 6 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my bf. broke up like 3 weeks ago and now i founfd out that when we were together he did not care about our relationship.and now this guy wants to get with me and he is my ex's best friend....and he sayz that he will care about me!but i don't know what to do cuz i only like him as a friend.. but i don't want to hurt him..and he sometimes go were i go everyday...and he is kool with me!!!!!!!!!!!and the guy that wants to get wit me says that he has alot of friends(girls) that are $hit talkers!so know i don't want to be called a HOE so that is also bugging me.i don't know what to do....i want to give him a chance but all those thing are getting in da way..............and i think that i only like him s a friend but i want to give him a chance .......yeah i don't even understand myself cuz i am so stressed out!!
please help............................................

2006-08-12 12:44:48 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Singles & Dating

she thinks I am overspending?!?!?

I always make sure my family is being taken care of, but I got a pair of glasses and she wants to know how come my husband who got his glasses last year can't get a new pair. When this is my first new pair in 6 years?

AND...let's rush him to the dentist because his cheek hurts. But, I need to go because I haven't been in 5 years?

She really ticks me off. I will never understand her logic!

2006-08-12 12:44:13 · 4 answers · asked by Gothic Martha™ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-12 12:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Singles & Dating

I got my boyfriends MySpace, Facebook, and e-mail password (accidentally LOL) and found out he was sending messages to other girls now I don't know what to do without telling on myself for getting the password.

2006-08-12 12:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by sicem09 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in a hick town so there's practically no where to go for a date. we've been to the movies and there's a mini- golf course, but nothing else. any ideas?

2006-08-12 12:42:26 · 20 answers · asked by georgetta 1 in Singles & Dating

when i'm done having sex with a girl i dont want to be with her anymore i would like to go to my home and watch tv or a football game, is this normal???

2006-08-12 12:41:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend are putting a book together. Basically what are some of the worse excuses ever used in a relationship. What are some bad excuses you used for not calling ? Showing up etc. Thanks in advance

2006-08-12 12:41:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 12:41:31 · 6 answers · asked by doritolover0096 1 in Singles & Dating

When something is on a man's mind and it's causing him to act distant and quiet and his spouse is a loveing careing person and is concerned about his thoughts, why do men hold their thoughts in and say" I will be okay or "I don't want to talk about it"? I just dont understand why men turn away compationate help.

2006-08-12 12:41:23 · 25 answers · asked by fruitstream 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-12 12:41:10 · 29 answers · asked by Paulette G 1 in Family

2006-08-12 12:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by maya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay Please serious answers? My boyfriend is hairy(not nasty), but hairy. He's almost 100% Irish, but he's also Scottish and English? Where does the body hair come from? Just curious! lol

2006-08-12 12:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by Punky 3 in Singles & Dating

a friend and i have strong feelings for eachother but have not been in proper circumstances to have a relationship. we will be living in the same city again come next summer, do things like this actually work out?

2006-08-12 12:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by esoitl 1 in Singles & Dating

SHOULD I HAVE CALLED THE COPS AND PRESSED CHARGES AGAINST MY MOTHER?

2006-08-12 12:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by carnival of carnige 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i start highschool on Monday and i'm just wondering if ur 9th grade year is good or bad???

all my friends r in another school, so i might be alone, which sux alot.

2006-08-12 12:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Patty's Tat 5 in Friends

My friend is 24 n a girl.she has been seeing a guy for about 2 months now.she really likes him n talks my ear off about him most days.he is someone she wants to get serious with she tells me.in a few weeks she is going to a concert in a city she used to live in 6 hrs away.her boyfriend cant go because hes tied up with work.after a mini search to find someone to go with her, she is now going with a guy friend who lives in the city where the concert is being held.they r going to meet there n she is going to stay the weekend.when i went over her house the other day she was chatting online with a few people including the guy friend.i accidentally caught him typing "i love you" n then she replied "i love you too" n then she sort of joked by saying "and ill love you even more if you can go to the concert with me in a few weeks." i know they r buddies n everything but is it normal for a girl with a bf to talk to another guy that way?

2006-08-12 12:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is such a jerk...how di i calm down?

2006-08-12 12:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and a friend are putting something like a book together. About the worst excuses you might have heard from a man.
So what are some of the worse excuses a man has given you ? Whether it was calling but didn't. Showing up. Etc Thanks in advance.

2006-08-12 12:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my husband but the man needs to grow up....just about everything that goes on with us he needs his mom approval....his mom already treats him like **** and and she tries to treat me the same way....this guy has us living with his mom becasue he had me thinking that we had a place to go after we let go of the house my parents were renting out since i was 12....now im in this damn women house who wont talk to me and she dont even talk to her grandchildren that much....i tell him this crying and everything and he cant even be man enough to tell his mom or attempt to try to get all of us together...im always nice to her though, ikeep her house clean and i speak and we pay our part i dont know what the problem is.....its more to this but i dont have enough space and you wouldnt want to read all of it lol this is long already

2006-08-12 12:35:12 · 23 answers · asked by anita m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

.........had not left your husband for another MAN...serious typo the other day.....interesting answers though........

2006-08-12 12:34:18 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce