I got my boyfriends MySpace, Facebook, and e-mail password (accidentally LOL) and found out he was sending messages to other girls now I don't know what to do without telling on myself for getting the password.
2006-08-12 12:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by sicem09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either wiggle it out of him (asking indirect questions that imply to doing something behind your back) and see his reaction. or, put a gun to his head and ask him flat out.
2006-08-12 12:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you accidentally get a password to myspace, facebook
AND email? You aren't kidding anyone girl....you obviously had reasons for wanting to check up on him anyway. If you don't trust him then its time to move on....No way for you to confront him without him getting on the defensive and asking you how you managed to get that information without him knowing. He'll never bbelieve the "accidentally" part
2006-08-12 12:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither one of you are trustworthy! Do two wrongs make a right?
You are children not reallyl bf and gf? If you can't stay out of your bf's personal business you aren't much of a gf. And if he is messaging other girls then he isn't worth a second change.
Have you guys ever discussed boundries in your relationship?
Grow up a bit more before you are in a commited relationship.
2006-08-12 12:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool but sassy talk around the subject but not directly and see what he says don't tell him u know - don't show him u know
see if you can catch him at it - just see him squirm watch him react - but make sure u have a get out -a plan X - don't do anything drastic or without thinking. Maybe u could do the same back to him and let him catch u out - see how he likes it.
2006-08-12 12:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by craysi maysi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly to be undemanding, i think of you are able to tell him and ask approximately it. while you're in an prolonged courting, or in any courting, you would be undemanding with a view to anticipate honesty out of your companion. do your self and your bf a want and fess up so as which you will clean the air. secracy isn't the respond.. i promise. in case you have been with him that long, i assume that he has some form of admire for you and consult from you approximately it. protecting it a secret and breaking apart in a while would be unhappy, yet you are able to supply him the income of the doubt and believe that he will exchange for you. possibly he will end texting this woman you're speaking approximately. basically tell him and the two considered one of you are able to compromise. you are able to rediscover that spark or some thing...possibly he wont be bored. And by utilising telling him which you're scared that he is going to offer up on you, you would be letting him comprehend which you care approximately him, and you opt for for to be with him. long relationships are complicated, and now and back you are able to sacrifice component of your self with a view to make it artwork. i in my opinion wish that this permits via fact I surely have been interior a similar project, and being lied to does not experience very stable. Please tell him. :D it is going to likely be ok. basically permit him comprehend how lots you care approximately him and which you do no longer decide for to unfastened him.. and he will with a bit of luck see what he's doing isn't stable. Sorry this became see you later,, yet i basically had to remark GOOOD LUUUCKK!
2016-11-04 11:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all u don't need 2 tell him how u found out. 2nd, just because he's talking 2 other girls doesn't mean he's cheating on u. 3rd, if u know he's cheating I'd say something like "I've found out some things. Is there anything u wanna tell me?"
2006-08-12 12:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What types of messages? If it's something that would affect you I'm glad you did find out.
Come clean about it to him, if he has nothing to hide he will tell you the truth. If he lies you know what type of person he is and hopefully you would choose to move on froma person who lies and disrespects you as a woman and partner.
If he's not guilty, apologise and not do it again.
2006-08-12 12:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, just dump him. He doesn't need to know you found his password. If he has been cheating on you, or trying to then find a decent guy. Tell him your dumping him for having bad breath, or because he is a bad kisser, etc - then tell all his friends thats why you dumped him!
Good guys exist, get yourself one.
Good luck
2006-08-12 12:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Publicist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was in the msgs? How was he talking to them? Plus honesty is the jey in all relationships darlin and hes hinding this from you who knows what he could be hiding. If the msgs are bad I would just confront him but not in an attacking mode just ask him how he values your relationship and being honest w/eachother...make him break if u can
2006-08-12 12:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Keyon F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send messages to those girls that say i hate you. then ask your bf what has he been doing lately(on the computer).
then do your best to make him say(himself) that he has been chatting with girls. if he doesnt answer, slap him to make him cry. lol
then u start to lol and say "i already knew u were chatting. i have your passwords" then break out laughing. lol lol lol
2006-08-12 12:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋