boys and girls help
2006-08-12 12:49:52 · 34 answers · asked by ''~ A.J ~'' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, your to young to be wanting to have sex at your age. it would be better if u would wait till your older like 19 or 20 maybe even 18.
2006-08-12 12:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would strongly advise against it. I can say that I lost my virginity at the age of 13 and it was the worst experience of my life. Not physically but mentally. You will not marry this boy, he will not love you forever and you will probably end up being more promiscuous becuase you will think that giving boys that will make them like you more but they won't. Your virginity is something special. Don't waste it on someone who isn't going to be your husband. If I could take mine back I would..because my husband should have been the only one to recieve it in the first place. Also as a side note, it is very uncommon but highly respected for a girl to BE A VIRGIN these days...don't be the 99% statistic of girls who have lost there virginity...be the 1% that were strong enough to WAIT!!
2006-08-12 12:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jayse'sMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us think we want to have sex at that age but I'll tell you something...it's not good until you get older. I know from personal experience. If you do it now, you will find out what I mean about later but if you wait then you will only know what it is like when it is better. Right now, your body is not ready for it so all it will do is create problems physically. For example...80 % of women that have cervical cancer have is because they had sex before the age of 19 and if you don't believe me then look it up.
2006-08-12 12:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by stall_out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy?????? Your body isn't even formed yet!!! You think that sex is all about having a good time but it's not you have to think about the consequences of being sexually active! You could get pregnant or be infected with AIDS or other sexually transmitted diseases!!! Wait until you're older so you can enjoy the experience if you don't you can regret it for the rest of your life. Enjoy your childhood cause it never comes back!!
2006-08-12 12:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by ralcdm1993 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have some barbie dolls to play with or something? Do you really want to be a mommy at 12 years old???? I think NOT young lady! Not to mention you probably don't even know what sex is. That is something you do with someone you are married to and in love with. You don't need sex. Wait until you are older and find someone special that you are in love with.
2006-08-12 12:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about having a baby, herpes, aids or hiv, and genetal warts. don't have sex.
you know that cervical cancer is cause by a virus? it's called HPV, and can be transfered even when using condoms. i had it, and it is NOT fun.
i had to have my whole privete area lasered, yes, burned! it was a huge gaping wound bloody and pus and gross and hurt like nothing i've ever felt before. the doctors say it's worse than having a baby. and i used protection. it's a virus, mind you, it can be transfered a lot of ways.
my advice: don't do it, not yet, not until you are older and more educated about it and found a really good guy that will treat you like his whole world. you don't want to regret anything stupid, imagine going through life regreting your first guy you did it with. belive me, you want to wait.
2006-08-12 12:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the hurry? Can't it wait? You want the first time to be special and with someone you really love. I know that sounds corney and all, but it is the truth. 12 is too young anyway. You should be going to movies and the park to hang out. Have you talked to your mom also? If you are going to have sex then you need to be protected. But please wait and let it happen when it really should happen. Don't rush it.
2006-08-12 12:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi AJ...You need to find a hobby to take your mind off of sex...Your way to young to even be thinking of having sex and your to young to want sex sooooo badly...I wouldn't want to see you at the ages of 13yrs.old having a baby with a baby...So be smart and read up on sex and pregnancy...And for your safety...DON'T HAVE SEX,AT LEAST NOT UNTIL YOU ARE OLDER...YOUR FRIEND...
Clowmy
2006-08-12 13:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back to playing Barbies. You watch entirely too much cable.
You're setting yourself up for a huge HUGE let down. You are physically too young to enjoy what a man and woman experience when their bodies are mature.
I think your mind is playing tricks on you. Get off the internet and get busy being a kid again.
2006-08-12 12:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while. Teenage boys aren't any good yet and older ones will go to jail for having sex with someone your age.
2006-08-12 12:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋