ok me and my bf. broke up like 3 weeks ago and now i founfd out that when we were together he did not care about our relationship.and now this guy wants to get with me and he is my ex's best friend....and he sayz that he will care about me!but i don't know what to do cuz i only like him as a friend.. but i don't want to hurt him..and he sometimes go were i go everyday...and he is kool with me!!!!!!!!!!!and the guy that wants to get wit me says that he has alot of friends(girls) that are $hit talkers!so know i don't want to be called a HOE so that is also bugging me.i don't know what to do....i want to give him a chance but all those thing are getting in da way..............and i think that i only like him s a friend but i want to give him a chance .......yeah i don't even understand myself cuz i am so stressed out!!
please help............................................
2006-08-12 12:44:48 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey I'm a teen trust me that happens to me a lot!! normally your ex bf's friend will be more caring than him 'cause he sees will your ex did wrong and try to not to do what your ex did wrong trust me they always did for me. And a lot of times dating your friend is a lot better cuz they know more about you than some guy that is not your friend. so i think that you should give him a chance you never know he may be the best boyfriend you've ever had. and trust me wont be called a hoe I've dated a guy wit $$ but that didn't matter just don't go off doing thang that would make people think that you are. if you ever need any other advice on dating from a teen E-mail me.
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2006-08-12 13:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist I'm sorry that your bf and u broke up. My ex broke up with me for the same reason. I think that you should give your ex's best friend a chance. He sounds like a good guy. But I think you should wait a while before you go out with him. like another 3 weeks. Maybe by then maybe you might relax a little and some people might forget about the whole stuation. I went out with one of my ex's friends and it turned out to be a good relationship. Have you ever thought that maybe he liked you all along? Before you started dated his friend? Wait a while before you start to date him, cuz it's not good to go from one boyfriend to a next, or people will call you bad names like hoe. You need a little time being single. Go out him him, give him a chance, what do you have to lose? Good luck!!
2006-08-12 20:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Court Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice you said you only like him as a friend. That's your answer. Tell him that since you just broke up you want to be single for a while. Your not ready for another relationship. It sounds to me like he's playing you, saying you ex-bf didn't care, but he will? When after he makes you his HOE? (your words not mine) Stay single for a while! No guy that is really into you wants you when you are on the rebound!
2006-08-12 19:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweathogwife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...all guys will swear up and down that they care about you when really they may or may not. i would just be cool with him for a while and try to figure out what his true intentions are before I make any serious decision. dont stress over it...there's someone out there for everyone and i'm sure you'll find someone who really cares about you...but I wouldnt rush into anything. take it slow and you'll be able to see things for what they really are
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-12 19:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by sicem09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa..... slow the f*ck down..... Teenage guys are pigs. They will throw thier fun stick in anything that wants them to. My suggestion, If I understood you right is stay his friend, just don't get laid. It won't be worth it.
2006-08-12 19:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋