when i'm done having sex with a girl i dont want to be with her anymore i would like to go to my home and watch tv or a football game, is this normal???
2006-08-12 12:41:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because your a user and a loser
2006-08-12 12:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. At a certain age, sex is like a game---the more the better. It is a game without investing feelings, and that's where you seem to be at. I don't really think that it is normal, but then, at a certain age in puberty a lot of boys do what is called a "headcount", so it depends.
However, I would say, start looking at the girls from a different perspective. What kind of personality do they have---and which one seems to be atrracting you? What kind of activities do they like? There are a lot of girls out there who share the same interests like you, i.e. computers, football, basketball, baseball, raquet ball, swimming, pool, whatever your interests are---look for matches of those when you look at the girls. What can a girl do for you that you cannot do for yourself?(Aside from having sex!). When you start evaluating girls as potential partners rather than potential sex objects, then you might eventually run into the one you would like to stay with after having sex. And until you find that one, it wouldn't even be a bad idea to stay away from sex and occupy yourself with other activities that are fun for you. Watching television is great on a rainy, foggy, and cold day, but I don't think it is so great when one comes home empty of all feelings....Good Luck
2006-08-12 19:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seem as if you are after one thing and once you get it your done. Stop being a jerk. If the woman is worth sleeping with she is worth spending time with after the deed is done. If you keep doing this you will surely get dumped. Women don't like being used as booty calls.
2006-08-12 19:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because the girl you have sex with, you don't like her and don't respect her. Watch do it with someone you really like and care for and you will not leave her.
2006-08-12 19:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be asking yourself why you keep getting into these scenarios and why you're having sex with people you don't want to be around.
It's like people going around getting high with people they'd never want to be around sober. Maybe you are a sex addict.
2006-08-12 19:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Untitled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are having meaningless sex...there is no emotional ties between the two of you. You got what you wanted and now you want to go do your own thing....
2006-08-12 19:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commitment-phobic? Sure sounds like it. Don't be afraid of commitment, and don't keep doing that, your past gf's are going to say horrible things about you, and other girls are going to steer clear of you. And you don't want to be alone all your life either,
[Trust me, I know what it feels like] Don't be afraid to commit... at least once.
2006-08-12 19:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it means you don't care about her as a human being. You got what you wanted from her and decided to move on to another diversion. It's a pretty lousy way to treat someone.
2006-08-12 19:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just that after sex is when people feel most relaxed. You just want to be at you own crib and you stay where she is, she may feel that you want to commit to her, and you don't want that to happen
2006-08-12 19:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Laydi Karma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me it is just sex, because if you had feelings for her and you loved her, you would want to be by her side doing more than just having sex.
2006-08-12 19:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know it's not normal it's called using her for sex that's a problem kick it why u can
2006-08-12 19:46:10 · answer #11 · answered by vampgirl_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋