Family & Relationships - 3 August 2006

what am i to you?
i asked this guy who made me stood up for him in our supposed-to-be-date.
he can't answer..hell yeah,i know i deserve an explanation even though we are not a couple..
he can't tell me what i am to him..he just called his girl and made me realize that i was just like nothing to him.he should have told me earlier that he already has a girl..is it enough to make me shut up or do i still need an explanation from him? and now,it me who seems to be the ***** that's trying to get in between their relationship though im not..what do you think should i do? im not calling nor texting him since then but now,he's coming back to me..for a reason i don't know...what should i do?

2006-08-03 08:46:38 · 15 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty close with a co-worker of mine. She's great and we have lots in common. The only thing is that she doesn't realize how bossy she can be. By no means do i work FOR her, yet she barks orders as if i do. I do what i can to help her out, but can't stand the thought of her thinking thats what i'm there to do. She's very abrupt, and when another employee told her that she was abrupt, she ran back to me and says, "she just said i'm abrupt! am i abrupt!?". She confides in me so i can't bear to tell her she's extremely bossy and abrupt. Is there anything I can do to nicely tell her how I feel? I'm too nice and have a hard time with confrontation, anyone got any advice?

2006-08-03 08:46:32 · 5 answers · asked by iwantitall420 1 in Friends

2006-08-03 08:46:23 · 4 answers · asked by <noidea> 1 in Friends

I have the really good friend and she is beautiful and smart and has a great personality,but she knows I like her and I need some good icebreakers or some good ways to get that elusive first kiss.

2006-08-03 08:45:40 · 27 answers · asked by Romance_help_needed 1 in Singles & Dating

whata does a wink mean but when a guy gives i to a grl??

2006-08-03 08:45:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 08:45:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-03 08:45:18 · 4 answers · asked by shane p 1 in Singles & Dating

i just like it when my bf tells me i want u,i want the whole of u 4 me and 4 me alone,and he tells me u r my girl .is that ok

2006-08-03 08:44:38 · 6 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

we tend to mature over the years in the way we think...or the last words we said to someone before they passed away,may not have been as pleasant as we would have liked..or said what we really felt in our hearts.

2006-08-03 08:44:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend and i had sex for the first time.
after it she just kept crying. she said she doesn't know why she was crying. i don't know what was wrong. i want to know. but she says she doesn't know. she just cried and couldn't stop. please help! i'm worried about her.

2006-08-03 08:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

completely unexpected. She's in advertising and she decided that my hand would be perfect for a jewelry ad she was putting together. It's pretty cool even if I don't get paid. Have you ever worked with your significant other or family?

2006-08-03 08:43:36 · 5 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it matter if a 58 year old man, dating a 30 year old girl? Can it last?

2006-08-03 08:43:09 · 45 answers · asked by billie b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 08:42:12 · 3 answers · asked by la dolce vita 3 in Family

1. Physical touch (non sexual)
2. Quality time
3. Acts of service
4. Words of affirmation
5. Gifts

The person can be a friend, family member or even a co-worker.

2006-08-03 08:41:34 · 3 answers · asked by Who me? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it ok to be curious about women and to possibly experiment?

if so, whats wrong with it? is it not healthy?

2006-08-03 08:41:31 · 14 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?

2006-08-03 08:41:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im in a relationship right now and were sexually active and its great but theres a lot of other women out there after me heres to of the types the ones that just wanna be fuckbuddys and the ones that wanna have real relationships and i dont know if i should leave my gf and if i do which of these 2 types of girls should i go with umm my gf is great but we hardly ever talk anymore and i cant tell if she's still interested in me idk what should i do

2006-08-03 08:41:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so here goes my sisters hubby fell asleep while having sex last night and she has been wanting to leave his a s s for a long time he is a good man who pays bills and takes good care of the kids but he is not there emotionally for the kids (3 total) or her. what is everyone's opioion about the situation? should she leave or stay?

2006-08-03 08:40:59 · 40 answers · asked by luvyduvy1184 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it stand for somthing?

2006-08-03 08:40:56 · 16 answers · asked by ηєvєrmorє 6 in Singles & Dating

To make long story short, this girl who was suppose to be a friend, i got her on my phone plan and she ended up moving. the day b4 she moved she told me she had my money she owed for it, well she "fell asleep" and so couldnt bring me the money. The next day she moved and said she will have to mail me the money...well a month went by and she didnt send me no money b/c she said she had no job yet. I have no job either needless to say....so i needed her to pay her bill. I told her i would prolly have to cut her phone off if she didnt pay me soon b/c i cant afford it. She said do what u have to do. Couple weeks later she left me a message saying she got a job, and she cant pay me until 2 weeks from now. So I cut her phone off, this was day b4 her bday and she said i sent u the money yesterday, which was the day she called and said she cant send it til 2 weeks..so she lied. Do you think its mean that i didnt cut it back on or i didnt wait til after her bday to cut it off?

2006-08-03 08:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A girl that a guy has been with for years and knows everything or almost everything there is to know about him and knows his family and gets along with his family and vice versa or a girl that a guy has found more interesting in just a short time and loves her and is willing to move from ny to louisiana just to be with the girl he has been with just for a short while. She hasn't met his family or anything like that yet or probably never will, but he's going to leave everything he has in ny to be with her. Who has an advantage in this situation?!?!

2006-08-03 08:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by shawn_0523 2 in Singles & Dating

I warmed your car on cold mornings. I cooked and cleaned one day a week. I stayed with you in the hospital when you were sick. I rubbed your head when it hurt. Held your hand while we watched tv. I took you your lunch when you forgot it so you wouldn't be hungry. I told you daily that I loved you and how nice you looked. Read some of my poems and you will see. If any ladies are interested in a guy like me. please let me know. Ask me for my pic if you are interested.

2006-08-03 08:38:31 · 19 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2 in Singles & Dating

If you're with someone you don't really like or have interest in, what is the point of staying with them and going out with someone else behind their back? Just dump the person you don't like and get on with it. Right? What are the reasons for doing this? To avoid the drama? What is your opinion?

2006-08-03 08:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by alwaysright 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm serious,why?

2006-08-03 08:37:05 · 48 answers · asked by It's killing time again..... 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 08:37:03 · 15 answers · asked by bv715 2 in Singles & Dating

it may sound conceited but i have a feeling my cousin might be jealous of me. she harasses me whenever i'm around her, and makes me feel so uncomfortable that i usually leave the room when she enters. i just feel nervous and awkward and uncomfortable. she gives me the silent treatment all the time, and is always making fun of me-and i don't know why. i'm not a freak or anything, and if i really was, she probably wouldn't be making fun of me for being one. when i asked her if she was jealous she got mad and said no. i told her that i didn't care and she told me that i did care. what's up with that? is she suffering from haterate syndrome or what? or maybe she just picks on me to irritate me?

2006-08-03 08:36:43 · 13 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Family

I am a decent boy-next-door-looking 22 year old guy. I can be funny if I know you, but am low key and quiet by nature....kinda bookish. Because of this, most of my girlfriends have been out-going and talkative. Most have really picked me up, rather than me picking them. A couple months ago, a friend told me about this episode of 20/20 where some guy claimed that women--dispite the lies they say in public, and to themselves--are attracted to aggressive, confident jerks. He showed that if you are confident, women will even gravitate to men who put them down. I watched the show on my friend's DVR. Afterwards, I spent several weeks pushing myself to be super outgoing and test out the theory. At first to my delight, and then to my disgust, I found it worked. Even if all I did was brag about myself, or be mildly insulting to a female, being hyper masculine and super confident worked. But now it's really saddened me. I want to pull honeys, but respect them too. Please help me understand.

2006-08-03 08:36:30 · 15 answers · asked by J J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a decent boy-next-door-looking 22 year old guy. I can be funny if I know you, but am low key and quiet by nature....kinda bookish. Because of this, most of my girlfriends have been out-going and talkative. Most have really picked me up, rather than me picking them. A couple months ago, a friend told me about this episode of 20/20 where some guy claimed that women--dispite the lies they say in public, and to themselves--are attracted to aggressive, confident jerks. He showed that if you are confident, women will even gravitate to men who put them down. I watched the show on my friend's DVR. Afterwards, I spent several weeks pushing myself to be super outgoing and test out the theory. At first to my delight, and then to my disgust, I found it worked. Even if all I did was brag about myself, or be mildly insulting to a female, being hyper masculine and super confident worked. But now it's really saddened me. I want to pull honeys, but respect them too. Please help me understand.

2006-08-03 08:34:59 · 19 answers · asked by J J 1 in Friends

Is it normal for a man to remember every date of what ever happened between him and his (gf, fiance, wife) and i mean nice things like first date, first kiss, first time to say i love you...etc..don't you think it's strange? i always thought that guys don't care of such dates. My husband has this talent the funny thing is that i don't remember some of the dates he talks about :))

2006-08-03 08:34:33 · 13 answers · asked by My pretty girls 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 08:34:23 · 67 answers · asked by JeffE 6 in Family