ok im in a relationship right now and were sexually active and its great but theres a lot of other women out there after me heres to of the types the ones that just wanna be fuckbuddys and the ones that wanna have real relationships and i dont know if i should leave my gf and if i do which of these 2 types of girls should i go with umm my gf is great but we hardly ever talk anymore and i cant tell if she's still interested in me idk what should i do
2006-08-03 08:41:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well when u leave ur girl sure ull have girls to mess around with but u wont have anyone that cares about you or that u can just chill and watch a movie with. Plus u wont like these girls that u mess with they will become overly obsessed with you because ull be hsowing them no affection, then ull just have a awkkward mess on ur ahnds and ull just want to go and chill with ut g.f. But hey do what u please it can be fun hvaing peple obbsessing over...if ur into that...?
2006-08-03 08:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by kittykatB4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to leave your girlfriend for whatever the reason, definately do that first. Then decide what you want. Do you feel like being in another relationship or just playing the field and having fun. I think if your under 25 you don't really need a steady anyways. Dating is supposed to lead to marriage so if your not ready for marriage why commit to one person now. Put some extra thought into it and do what your heart tells you to. Good Luck.
2006-08-03 15:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You need help... From the sound of your question you haven't a clue as to what a relationship is. Get your mind out of the gutter and either stick with your existing girl friend and build on that relationship or find a new one. And remember in life "what goes around comes around".
2006-08-03 16:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already considered the possibilities of leaving your G/F, or you wouldn't be asking for a total stranger's opinion, right now, you are young you have your whole life ahead of you, if all that you want is sex, stop stringing the females who want to have real relationships with you along.
I'm sure that you have been sexually educated about living a sexual promiscuous life and what it will lead to.
I don't condone your actions, and i certainly hope that for you G/F's sake, that you end your relationship with her ASAP.
2006-08-03 15:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by LeeChue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what stage in your life you are. Do YOU want a relationship or just some fun for now? Think about it. It has to come from you. It would be the right thing to do to break it off with girlfriend first if you decide to do that.
2006-08-03 15:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want out of life and other people. If sex is the only thing that is important to you then keeping tapping the well til it runs dry. If you want someone who gives a damn about you then you are going to have to put in the time and effort to cultivate that relationship. Don't kid yourself or the other person. Good luck.
2006-08-03 15:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should talk to your girlfriend and find out what's up and where are you at. Then that's up to you if you want to be a slut or not. Once done a name will be attached to you if it's the slut you are and you want a relationship after the girl might have a hard time to trust you
2006-08-03 15:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. Start off by talking to her & asking her how she feels about you and how seriouse she is in the relationship & go from there, if she doesn't sound like shes realy into you anymore, dump her butt & go have fun, you only live once. Go have some fun before you get to old & all the girls don't want you.
HAVE FUN & BE SAFE!!!!!
2006-08-03 15:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy 24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that you should leave her, i mean you need to be able to talk to your girlfriend. And if i was you i would look around, maybe have fuckbuddys for alittle bit and find out that you like that or that u dont like that, maybe later on you will want to have a relaionship with someone. just remember life is too short to stay with someone who you dont have fun with.
2006-08-03 15:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by liss843 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Ask yourself what you're really looking for. Talk to your girlfriend, tell her how you feel about your relationship (drifting apart etc.).
You two might be able to work things out (decide first if that's what you really want).
If you're not interested in working things out...get out. Then you can decide between the other little nymphs that have been chasing you.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 15:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋