Does it matter if a 58 year old man, dating a 30 year old girl? Can it last?
2006-08-03 08:43:09 · 45 answers · asked by billie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it can,your age is a good thing because your mature and the thirty year old girl can keep u alive and make you feel young.....your still young anyways....your as young as u feel
2006-08-03 08:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by elisa21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, most people would find it dirty and wrong. Most people will come up with excuses and run their mouth about something - and trust me, they WILL find something. Most people will double-take the fact when they find out. Most people will worry about you, or walk on eggshells about it.
You will probably experience a lot of things that most people, will never know.
Give you a piece of advice: Society is a bubble. Anything that lives outside of the bubble is a threat to society. If you do not conform, "most people" will be against you. This is how it's in the States, since we have freedoms until they're taken away.
Now, you just have to ask yourself: do you really care that much? Does it bother you what "most people" say? What society does?
It's your life, not theirs.
Unless it's the other way around. If you're asking because a friend is doing it, stop being "most people" and start being a friend. Tell them how you feel, and talk, laugh, cry, fight, *communicate*, etc. If you are just "most people," then no matter what you find out, you'll continue being "most people."
2006-08-03 08:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Solrium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 30 year old female is most definately not a girl.
Sure, they're both full grown adults and dating is fine. Who's to say if it will last. Maybe it won't when she's 50 and he's 78.
2006-08-03 08:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter but maturity level does.
To each his own, I say. I have a 44 year old friend who dates 26 to 28 year old guys so...
2006-08-03 08:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I question why you are referring to a 30 year old woman as a "girl."
2006-08-03 08:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! After the initial physical attraction what in the world are you going to talk about? And at 30 you not totally who you're going to become so when the changes come then what?
2006-08-03 08:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age matters when you are under 18..some ppl don't even mature then really..its experience and when you are an adult woman and man..it doesn't matter if the two of you are mature enough.
2006-08-03 08:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jinkies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 30, not a girl, i guess in this case it does not matter, if both are mature i guess a women at the age of 30 is already mature.
2006-08-03 08:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a pretty big age gap........you're going to have to evaluate eachother's motive for wanting to be together. Is it because you guys truly care about each other or are u just with her to recapture your youth or is she in it to have a sugar daddy. For those of you that dont know what a sugar daddy is, a guy who is being used for their money.
2006-08-03 08:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by johnblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what they want from each other. such as do you expect her to live like shes 58 or does she expect you to live like your 30. other than that i'd say go for it
2006-08-03 08:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋