ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-08-03 08:41:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to get a new man. At your age, you should be dating tons of guys. Nothings going to last so have fun and get some experience.
2006-08-11 06:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by VTGunz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of going back to school as going to the new and in proved boy friend store , you will have your pick of any one there, do not worry about the old one, he has mad up his mind to try some thing new, so why not do the same, throw all the junk that he left at your place, and the hurt and pain in your hart out with the trash, and move on. you are young life is full of this kind of crap! and it will happen again and again, but the next day you get to start over and hope this is the one, be strong, good luck.
2006-08-03 08:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by its777999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, slow down and take a DEEP breath. Relationship can be hard, but they don't have to be.
If he told you you were being possessive I would believe him, it doens't sound like you've made any progress on getting over him whcih you seriously need to do.
My suggestion would be to learn about boundaries and how they work. You can't MAKE anyone do or say anything. Second take a look at your emotions, if one day you hate him next day you miss him, understand it's NOT him you hate or miss, it's yourself.
Tough pill to swallo but trust me, if there's a void he was filling for you, you need to learn how to fill it yourself...
Love yourself first, THEN people will love you too.
2006-08-03 08:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone thinks cuz ur 17 you don't know what love is. that is so not true whan i was 17 i lost my 1st love and it still hurts (im 23 now).
i think you should try your best to be strong and think about the reasons why you broke up, he said you were possesive, think why would he say that and if you were its not because of you its him, he gave you a reason to feel that way.
listen sweetie, i wish you lots of luck and remember there is a rainbow after the storm.
2006-08-11 05:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as an indian, i hate this caption boy-friend. if u have a boy friend, it means lover. If boyfriends-it is brothel. replace the word girl for boy-in the phrase boyfriend. u must have a brother-friend than a boy friend or bouy friend-u know life boat-afriend helps in utter need that shoud. be a girl. get the advice of ur parents. it is too early an age to stick to this kind of friends. concentrate in ur studies and divert. u once for all break up with him or defer from getting a new. that shall be healthy in ur psyco-somatic system. the adviser ithat is mine, is 75 of age. beware of boy friends my dear child! dr. sangam
2006-08-11 08:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.Dynamis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, your Seventeen years old, just get over it. Theres going to alot more man that are truely interested in you. I know that you think your life is over, but its just started. Learn from this and move on, he'll realize he made a mistake, but by then you'll be in another better relationship.
2006-08-03 08:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if u really love him then try something that u might think that is progressive and u might get him back but if do dont think hes the hottest guy there is then just leave him cuz he doesnt have that many feelings for u
2006-08-11 08:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, first relax and think, coz decisions taken in an urgency, will always go wrong. for now concentrate on ur studies. If he really likes u, he will get back to u.
2006-08-11 05:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him he's not worth it ur still young dont waste ur teen years getting upset over one guy u will regret it later on in life dont tie urself to one guy theres plenty more fish in the sea go and have some fun
2006-08-11 01:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it if he moved on you should do the same no gay is worth cry for belive me i know .
2006-08-11 06:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋