A girl that a guy has been with for years and knows everything or almost everything there is to know about him and knows his family and gets along with his family and vice versa or a girl that a guy has found more interesting in just a short time and loves her and is willing to move from ny to louisiana just to be with the girl he has been with just for a short while. She hasn't met his family or anything like that yet or probably never will, but he's going to leave everything he has in ny to be with her. Who has an advantage in this situation?!?!
2006-08-03 08:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by shawn_0523 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he is a great guy ,he is willing to giving he had and move with her, of course her is more advantage because the guy had to start all over again. It is about what is worth not who had the most advantages.
2006-08-11 03:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. Longevity does not necessarily equal quality. While it's not right to turn your back on your family and people that you love, sometimes....you just need to take a chance. To see, for yourself. If the people he's leaving behind (remember,it's not good-bye, just "see you later") are truly his friends and family, they will be there for him should this not work out.
Maybe they just want the opportunity to get to know each other as well as other people in his life do. You can't fault him for that. Just put yourself in his shoes. Probably not the answer you want to hear, but sometimes people need to be selfish and do stuff for themselves.
2006-08-03 15:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by PMC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you who is more important. Go with your heart but, at the same time, realise that every action has a reaction !
If you choose to go with a new girl , fine, just realise that you must bear the consequences and live with that decision, be it right or wrong !
Good luck
2006-08-03 15:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman who's been around for awhile, because it's questionable whether things will work out in Louisiana the way your boyfriend thinks they will.
2006-08-03 15:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i aint sure who he is dating, but if u are tryin to get me to say he should be with u bc u just met him and he supposedly loves u more then ur wrong bc him n the otha girl r best friends n why would u want to break that up.. they r best friends and all and u r wantin to be the girl friend so be the girl friend and let them be best friends
2006-08-03 15:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋