Okay. Here it goes. If it jumbles and is a little confusing I apologize. Ok. So the past two weeks have been really amazing and I wouldn't trade them for anything, or anyone. I told myself that after my last relationship I wasn't going to go searching for my next boyfriend I would let fate take its course. Well, in a way someone has found me, but has made it pretty clear that they don't want a girlfriend (at least for the time being). But I've been getting mixed signals I guess you could call them. This past weekend, an ex called me and I was really surprised when he said he missed me and wants to see what happens. And that if I wasn't involved with this said person then he would give me what I wanted (a commited relationship). So I've been thinking about it and Im beginning to wonder. Does the said person I've been "seeing" for the past two weeks want to be with me because of me or because of what he can get out of me? The same sort of goes for my ex. Does he want to be with me because he genually misses me and wants me back in his life or is it because he feels no one else will take him? Plus, even though I want a commited relationship, I'm going to college in 29 days. So many people that I'm going to meet. I want to see what happens with said person but at the same time I want something that he's not willing to give me. What should I do? Should I stay with said person and see where it leads me or should I go down a road I've been down once before, taking a chance that it'll be different this time. What would you do if you were me?
2006-08-01
04:19:55
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