i dated a friend of mine and we was mates since school, but we split up and now we hardly even talk to each other we just dont get on at all, we used to see each other every day. and now we can go months with out even a word to each other?
2006-08-01 04:16:36 · 25 answers · asked by sarah 22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have tried so many times, cos he was great mate, i know he is seeing somone else now but so am i, but he said a girl would never come between our friendship. he's changed so much, i've told him how i feel, but he never makes an effort its always me. at the moment we arent even talking to each other, and i dont want to make the first move as its always me, but it just doesnt look like he's going to pick up the phone and call me
2006-08-01 04:37:57 · update #1
You grew a part. It happens.
2006-08-01 04:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time can only tell that has happend to be and now the guy i dated we talk all the time but before now its been like 7 years. It just takes time for people to wake up and see who there real friends are...
2006-08-01 11:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by jitterbug172000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know your answer! Its over and it has been for sometime now.... He is feeling weird by the whole thing and doesn't want to be your friend.... move on, if you both can go months without saying a word to eachother, then don't say a word to eachother ever again.... you have as much to say as he does.... NOTHING... so let it go already.
2006-08-01 11:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that person meant enough to me, then I'd attempt to regain the friendship closer to a level we had in the past...however people grow and change and sometimes friends drift apart...
It's up to you to decide whether you want this person to be a larger part of your life...and then take steps to find out if they feel the same...
2006-08-01 11:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just carry on with your life without your friend. It's clear that he's not interested in continuing the friendship. Find some other people to socialise with.
2006-08-01 11:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt of went out with a friend, so i suggest u talk to him suppends how u broke up. explain that u want to be friends like old times and that u wish u never went out with each other coz it ruined ur friendship as u can see?
2006-08-01 11:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by kim in guildford 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then maybe you just need to try and be friends with him again. Dating a friend can ruin a friend ship...sometimes it just doesn't. It works for somepeople and some times not. i have dated friends...and we never lost interest in eachother as such of being friends. But all you got to do is talk to him...start a convo...blah...blah...blah...thats all you got to do. And if he never talkes to you...forget about him. It was all fun and games.
2006-08-01 11:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bond has broke, maybe its just thsat time to drift away, ya fill that ya may have covered everything with each other, where everything has come to a faint right now.
2006-08-01 11:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by kittykat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on thin ice, because when a man doesn't talk anymore, he's really upset. But don't give up yet! If you haven't seen him for a while, and I mean for a while, try again. Sorry to say this, but one of you 2 has to give up their pride, otherwise...
2006-08-01 13:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by MIckey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately life goes on and we loose many of the people in our lives that were at one point or another very important. Sorry! As time goes on we change and so do they.
2006-08-01 11:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by i.needitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you go out with a close friend these things happen.
I would say to the girl/boy stay friends and the frienship and forget about us going out.
My ex has but we see each other once in a while
2006-08-01 11:25:17 · answer #11 · answered by yellowladyflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋