My girlfriend was cheated on by all the guys shed dated but 1 and me, she won't fully trust me, how can i get her to trust me, she already did that thing where she uses a friend i don't know to test me and she still doesn't trust me, is there anything i can do to make her trust me and i can't do anything sexual cause i am 14.
2006-08-01 04:13:28 · 10 answers · asked by Pandora Tommorow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I CAN'T DO ANYTHING SEXUAL TO EARN HER TRUST, YOU DA.MN PERVERTS
2006-08-01 04:25:30 · update #1
YES, there is one thing you can do. I belive you already tried this but do it again and see what happens. Talk to her about the situation. U should tell her that you know shes been through alot with other guys but your a different guy and she should leave the past behind her and move on. Obviously those guys arent thinking about how and why they cheated on her and there not thinking about her feelings so why is she still thinking about them. Listen i know she got her feelings hurt but life will gose on with or without her and she should enjoy the something thats new in her life which is you!
2006-08-01 04:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off let's forget about having sex right? as you said you're 14 and she's probably 12 or 13 so don't ever try to get into her panties or you'll complicate the already complicated situation i'm a girl and i know how we freak out to be asked nobody's home can we??? so forget about sex for the time being.
you wanna get her trust you...so easy if you reallly love her and it's important to gain her trust, call her all the time if you can't see her...just a lil buzz to tell where you are and what are you doin...even in middle of the nights U just can drop her a msg and tell her that you're thinkin about her...if i'm emphasizin on contactin her with the phone coz i know it'll work out great...it gives her a big amount of trust that you're around and you're doin nothin...just try this and i can bet your problem will be solved
goodluck
2006-08-01 04:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your not like any other guy. Reinsure her that you wouldn't hurt her like that. The only way you can probably get through to her is through words. Buy her things like flowers or write her a note on how you feel about the trust thing. Maybe she wasn't ready for another relationship. Tell her if she needs more time to recover and get over the past that you will give her more room. Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although that is kind of a reason (the before bf cheating on her) she should still trust you when you say you aren't going to cheat. She still might have heart ache from the before b/f and just not sure what to do since practically everytime a guy cheats on her. Just stay with her and soon enough, she will trust you.
2006-08-01 04:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a friend you must act like a friend. Trust is not a right, you must earn it. Be a good person and have her best interest in mind at all times. Yes and get the thought of sex out of your mind, you both don't need to be going there at all.
2006-08-01 04:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sitting her down and talking to her and telling her that you would never cheat on her. Write down everything you feel about her. And then give it to her and have her read it. I know my best friend has gone through the same thing she cant trust anyone, and her bf now is getting fed up with it so im helping them out... if you need anymore help feel free to e-mail me.
2006-08-01 04:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anna mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll never trust you or any man until she grows up. Move on kid. You're young and you don't need to waste your time at 14 trying to get someone to trust you. You should be enjoying your youth.
2006-08-01 04:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they always gonna used someone could be a guy or girl.
in order to get you they would try anything.
be honest ,if u got a friend that she dont know and she call you,text messages, or email you tell her about her.
anygirl u know introduce them all to her. act like u dont care
if u really telling the truth about where u going or where u were,with who,when,how,why..ect.
if u want to win any argurment about anything just
make sure u dont got any evidence of what she acussing you.
thats how it work for me.
2006-08-01 04:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Novato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 14 two and i have been cheated on plenty of times and i couldnt trust one of my botfriends, finally it drove us appart.
just take your time and stick with her and dont give her a reason to not trust you!!
2006-08-01 04:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only poop flinging will solve this problem
2006-08-01 04:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by u12fme 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋