What advice to you have for 21 year old guys that are attracted to 50 year old women?
2006-08-01 04:18:03 · 30 answers · asked by Cledus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is love. Your over 18, so no one should judge you... Good luck!
2006-08-01 04:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why do you think this is?
Are you looking for a mother figure? What do you find attractive? What happens when they're 70 & you're 40? Tho' this isn't 'the norm' you can't dictate love. If you are really concerned, see a counsellor.
I'm wondering why a 50 yr old woman would be interested in a 21 year old man, other than for sex?
2006-08-01 11:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sat laughing! Feelings of long ago memories, thoughts of past loves and affair's of the heart made her longingly think of her days as a 20 something year old....sitting suddenly upright, she decided to answer the young man's question: "Go for It!!! You don't know what you're missing! Seriously, there are many women who are in their late 40's-50's (and older) who appear younger visually (much younger then how I remember my mother and grandmother at 50) and physically are capable of enjoying the "challenges" of a younger man....
2006-08-01 11:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big thing ,because your 21 years of age. Is it just sex or is there more to it? Let it be a friendship and then see where it goes. Don't rush anything you may get hurt in the end.
2006-08-01 11:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that is what you really want. I have a friend who was 20 at the time and the woman that he was dating was 42. He changed his mine about dating her once her children his age found out about it. But if there are no children involved hey get what you can. Then talk to you friends and family to voice their opinion. Look what happen to Anna Nicole she became rich off her old man. Good Luck
2006-08-01 11:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by red334chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it i bet theyed rather be with a hunk thats younger as long as u are attracted nothing should matter the aging is a little off but i think if u find someone thats 50 and is attracted to you it just may be love .....aww
2006-08-01 11:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know age is just a number ! But that is kind of creepy. Maybe you should go on the t.v show "Next". You can find someone more of your age. What if that lady has kids even grandkids. I really don't think that would work out. But if she loves you back maybe it would work.
2006-08-01 11:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by *Fashiontiste* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um wow. im sorry its just that guys 21 years old normally go for their age not that older. but she is attracted to u to then be happy and go for it. i mean your of age now so do what u wnat
2006-08-01 11:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥xoxo♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a man liking older women.
2006-08-01 11:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever seen Harold & Maude? Age is just a number, you shouldn't care what others think.
"Harold, *everyone* has the right to make a butt out of themselves. You just can't let the world judge you too much."
Words of wisdom, my friend.
2006-08-01 11:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number, if u really like someone it doesnt matter the age, mature women are more experienced and have more going for them, financially
2006-08-01 11:21:51 · answer #11 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋