Serious question, nothing funny here...inquiring mind(s) do need to know
2006-08-01 04:18:08 · 30 answers · asked by skoobband 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They don't...that's a whiney "I didn't get what I wanted" excuse to mope around and try to get sympathy...the only time people finish last with regard to relationships, is when they quit trying.
Do you think chicks always get what they want or who they want? Good grief no! Dudes don't corner the market on getting dumped or not getting a chance with the person of their choice...
Buck up, get back out there...and drop the "woe is me" attitude...self confidence and a positive personality are appealing...the "loney guy" syndrome is not...
Good luck!
2006-08-01 04:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Because girls don't want a friend, they want a boyfriend. Sure, I share brainy thoughts with my gal, but I also treat her like the highly-desired woman she is.
Make sure you each know your top 10 list of Must Have's and Can't Stands (a la Warren in Date or Soul Mate) and figure out in the first 2 dates if you match up. She might have a Must Have need that you don't possess.
You have to have your own life outside her. I take dance lessons, ride my bike, go running, etc. When she's busy, it's no biggie since I have things to do. She even mentioned how she likes that I'm into so many different things. I like that she likes biking, running, swimming, and climbing. If you don't have some common activities (not chores), when the conversation is waning, there's nothing to fall back on.
2006-08-01 04:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're announcing you may have noticeable your brothers disrespect females and you have not had good fortune discovering a female friend. So you could love to emerge as extra like them so as to get a female friend? Unlikely. I could stay being a first-rate man due to the fact you already know higher. You recognize that what they're doing is abuse and is flawed. So do not be like them simply to discover a female friend. There are lots of first-rate females. You simply have got to recognize in which to appear. Start getting new types of events and you can discover distinctive variety of females. By the best way, you will have to now not stand apart and watch the abuse. You will have to attempt to quit it.
2016-08-28 14:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by alienello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most girls are idiots and want the chase, the romance, the once in a lifetime opportunity to be with a genuine bad guy. Its what makes our hearts pitter patter. Eventually we grow out of it, but it takes a while. Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a dog eat dog world and the more aggressive tend to reap the immediate rewards. They also tend to die young, often as a direct result of their own arrogance. Perhaps finishing last ain't such a bad thing after all...
2006-08-01 04:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean with women, alot of women find nice guys boring. They, unfortunatley, look for a wild guy or rough guy. Someone totally the opposite of the female gender.
2006-08-01 04:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ha Ha Charade You Are................... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you think is nice.
Nice by....being a dud...is not a fun nice.
You have to be a fun nice person.
read books about being fun, and I don't mean a stupid fun person...that looks like a fool.
yes, be confident in who you are.
Only you know what a nice guy you are.
don't be proud, and arrogant either. (shudders)
enjoy life, little things...laugh at yourself.
2006-08-01 04:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by tuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only guys who finish last are *******. No one wants to date a spineless yes-man.
2006-08-01 04:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of girls are raised by cold, absent, and even abusive fathers. bad boys make them feel like daddy did - bad most of the time and thrilled beyond measure when he was nice.
it's worth it to wait for healthy women, as long as you are acting in health ways, taking care of yourself and family and developing your interests, skills, and role in the community.
2006-08-01 04:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in a "what can you offer to me" world. I am one of these guys and I've had a lot of friends who have just used me and when I didnt have what they wanted, they moved to another friend to get it. It all comes down to selfishness.
2006-08-01 04:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ricknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋